I believe that nothing happens by mistake. I have great faith and belief that everything will go well for you and your darling little girl. She's at a very cute age. Enjoy her. They grow up way, way too fast. She's the important one now.
I know that all our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Some fascinating books to read that I've started and going though now...
Conversations with God - book 1, 2, 3 - Walsch (Excellent, btw - recommended!) The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle A Course in Miracles - Foundation for Inner Peace The Power of Intention -Dyer The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent - Esther & Jerry Hicks Ask and it is Given - Hicks The Disappearance of the Universe - Gary R Renard
Did the father own up to his responsibilities? He has two families now. Sad for you and the little one. All will work out and you have the knowledge now.
"I could be wrong with this but it seems to me that it is generally more important to women (not all, of course) to be in a relationship that to a guy. Hence, women tend to settle more often than men. At least it seems to be that way in my experience. I would never settle by the way. "
Making a blanket statement that 'it is generally more important to women (not all, of course) to be in a relationship that to a guy. Hence, Women tend to settle more often than men. '
That is condesending and rather bigoted. It's a statement that is untrue. Many, many men are co-dependent. Many men seem to marry again very quickly after a bad marriage. Many men tend to run to another relationship soon after a breakup. This 'seems' to happen. But no blanket statements from me.
I could be wrong with this but it seems to me that it is generally more important to man (not all, of course) to be in a relationship that to a woman. Hence, men tend to settle more often than women. At least it seems to be that way in my experience. I would never settle by the way. How does that sound to you?
condesending
(Not the way I feel, btw. Hope not to settle, though, a disservice to both.)
Have your pseudo intellectual conversations through emailing another. To be arrogant, cruel, critical and disrespectful to another is uncalled for at a site such as this.
Some people just don't have the ability to have an open mind or see outside the box a bit. I believe as you do, aprilla. Don't let the disrespect given by another set you back any. One who is narrowminded and can only allow their viewpoint is in a sad state of affairs.
Because most people are looking for another to complete them when they would be advised to start out with a relationship filled up and able to work, play, create 'along with' a partner. If love is what is being sought out and not 'trading needs' then a commitment can be made and sticking with each other through the difficulties.
Depends so much on what the disapproval is about and how many people have noticed that something is not right.
If staying with someone is a rebellious act to defy the good judgment of others, then it could be very foolish to pursue the relationship.
If you feel in your heart and soul that the person you're with has a good soul then ignore them. It's your and his experience. One way or another you will find out the truth.
I've been in a difficult relationship-Most people I knew kept their opinions to themselves, but not all. I was looking for answers to influence my own perceptions. I did not stay in the relationship and I still am not sure getting out was the right thing to do, but probably.
Hennery, I feel compelled to say to you that I am so impressed with your sense of compassion. I can see where you meant to give comfort and it was not taken. I see where the best of you was shown to us all and I very much appreciate it. There is a very loving side to you that I'm sure others will recognize and learn from. Glad you are you.
I like that I don't have to buy so many stamps anymore. Contact with my family. I take care of most my bills online. Connect with you guys, here. Read the news online. get weather reports. Have access to tv schedules. haha Keep track of the stock market. Banking. Buy some things online. Use the search engines for all kinds of information.
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for you and the little one. All will work out and you have the knowledge now.
condesending
RE: False Gods
Do you actually think God, the creator of all things. would create false gods?Do you actually think God would create sin? The creator of life and of love?
I think man/women may have gotten their heads screwed on backwards along the way.
Us little souls made up a 'bunch' of rules on our own.
Oh, well... We have eternity to find out We are He.