Look, you may condone her being the third person in your story, simply because your marriage wasn't working. But what about a woman or a man who seduces someone away from their respective partners, and thereby ruining what would normally be an ok marriage. No marriage is perfect, but at the same time no marriage needs to be tested by temptation from the outside...I think people who cheat, and break up families are bad news...But most weak partnerships need an affair to tip the scale, innit?
Well, I maintained contact with one ex of 8 years, and befriended her new partner....but in the larger scheme of things, it is unusual, and that hasn't been the case in my other relationships...it's the exception I would say..
Screw chastity...just look at the videos...if you need more motivation than that, you are beyond redemption, there is nothing we can do for you, and we will refund your fees...
I gave up and never was tempted again....I sat amongst smokers last night with the alcohol going down, and never thought about having a smoke once...I suppose once you've made up your mind, that's it. I think I make a better alcoholic anyway..
Well, clearly you're not dealing with these situations well, are you??...so start thinking how to deal with it better...otherwise these issues will control you, and not the other way round...!
If you don't have the guts, get the guts....if you dodge out of this situation, you will be forever making excuses, and in the end, he's going to get pissed off anyway.....so you're damned if you do, and damned if you don't. Learn to say "No, thank you....I have other plans"...It's his job to learn how to handle getting turned down. if he can't, that's his problem, not yours.
Phoenix, while you're going 'green', I think it would be wholly appropriate that you replace the ciggie in your mouth with an asparagus, or a piece of celery...good luck!!
Lagoona22 Forum Posts (10,711)
RE: request thread
Well I can live with muck grey for now....where's my coffee??...