Probably good advise. I guess men have a hard time reading signals. Growing up in a small town, most people are a little more friendly, but now living in a larger city, the rules ma be different. I think if I was really interested, I would be checking their ring finder and I would linger longer in the discussion. Most of the conversations lasted less then 3 minutes, and then I was off running errands etc.
I didn't notice their wedding ring because I wasn't looking at them in that way. They are usually just light conversations. Can't men tell the difference between being friendly and a come on?
I am sorry, and I really do know what you are going through. I've lost a brother in the say way. It has been 34 years, and still think of him from time to time. At the time the junior high school burnt down and we had to bus to another school across the city. My two brothers were on a bus and Kevin, the 16 year old who killed my brother, wouldn't let my other brother sit down, so my oldest brother got in a fight with him. The bus driver kicked them both off the bus, but it happend to be in front of Kevin's house. He said he had to put his yearbook away, but he was going to be right back. He got his dad's hunting knife. My oldest brother, Darwin, took off his glasses because he was expecting a fist fight and didn't want to get in trouble for breaking them. My other brother tried to get him not to fight, but with everyone calling him chicken, Darwin decided to stay. My other brother walked home because he didn't want to see a fight. Darwin was far sighted, so he didn't see the knife coming. He managed to get the knife away from him, and could have stabbed Kevin back, but he threw it out in the street and passed out. By the time he got to the hospital, he lossed too much blood. For many years I was so angry and wanted to kill this guy. At some I had to let it go.
One of the poems that helped me was as follows:
Our love one resting labors done have found a home beyound the sun, he found the gifts he labored for the richest gifts of heavens store, we grieve for them but they have found a better brighter day.
It does get easier with time, and you will remember the good times.
I find it interesting when I'm out and about that I run into guys who smile and say hello, and start up a conversation and I respond in kind, but throughout the conversation they say my wife.... my wife... My wife.... My wife.... My wife... My wife...
I feel like asking them; So are you trying to tell me your married? Why do they do this? Why should I care about their wife?
A) They need to remind themselves they are married B) They are afraid I'm interested C) They are bragging
Good morning, though now it is almost 3pm here. Tomorrow's Friday! What's your plans for the weekend? It is kind of raining here, so I will probably get some great movies and a latte, have my fireplace going and kick back and relax.
Ok, don't laugh. It's the lyrics from Andrew Lloyd Webber's The Phantom of the Operah
Lyrics to The phantom of the opera : THE PHANTOM OF THE OPERA
In sleep he sang to me, In dreams he came... that voice which calls to me and speaks my name...
And do I dream again? For now I find the Phantom of the Opera is there- inside my mind...
Sing once again with me our strange duet... My power over you grows stronger yet...
And though you turn from me, to glance behind, the Phantom of the Opera is there- inside your mind...
Those who have seen your face draw back in fear... I am the mask you wear...
It's me they hear...
Your/my spirit and your/my voice in one combined: the Phantom of the Opera is there- inside your/my mind...
(Off stage) He's there, the Phantom on the Opera... Beware the Phantom of the Opera...
(Phantom) In all your fantasies, you always knew that man and mystery...
(Christine)...were both in you...
(Both) And in this labyrinth where night is blind, the Phantom of the Opera is there/here inside your/my mind...
Sing,my Angel of Music!
He's there the Phantom of the Opera
I missed the play that was in town, darn. I heard it was really good. I did get a chance to see the Flying Dutchman play. That was really good. Got free box seats!
To each their own. I kind of like to pick a guy like I do a fine wine, someone to enjoy and savor, but if other people are into one night stands, it is totally up to them as long as they are consenting adults. What do I care what they do.
I agree. Omurchu22, if she was saying the things to you that you said on this thread, I think everybody would be saying that she was being kind of rude. Really, a f*king cow?
I'm not trying to be judgmental, but you are on a single's site, and if you want to meet a nice lady, well, you are going to scare them all away. You do realize that hundreds of people view these threads. I too have had people on here that have been a challenge, but I just try to ignore them. We are bound to find people we don't agree with, nor do we like very much, but I try to ignore any snide remarks, because in the end, they will be the ones to look bad. Please try and rise above the occasion. I use to be a tooling mechanic, and belive me, I could use a few choice words, but I'm not really on here to fight. I'm more interested in learning about other cultures, aren't you?
I checked your profile, I was really surprised of you age. I thought I was talking to someone who was 18-19. It's too bad you have such a bad attitude, you had a good profile.
I don't know either one of you very well, but the name calling only makes you look bad and shows a lack of restraint. I doubt that is the impression you want people to have of you, but then again, you probably don't care very much. Hmmm, I wonder what kind of a response I'm going to get.
Sorry to hear that. I know it hurts. This is the time to cheer yourself up. Cry a few tears and then go to a good movie, spa, or read a good book. Buy something special for yourself that you have always wanted. Take your little girl to a museum or get a great haircut. It works for me. There is a saying, if you love someone, let them go. If it was meant to be they will come back to you and if not, then it wasn't meant to be. Perhaps someone even more special is around the corner. So once you have cried a few tears, go out and paint the town red! Your value does not depend on a man.
Sorry to hear that. I know it hurts. This is the time to cheer yourself up. Cry a few tears and then go to a good movie, spa, or read a good book. Buy something special for yourself that you have always wanted. Take your little girl to a museum or get a great haircut. It works for me. There is a saying, if you love someone, let them go. If it was meant to be they will come back to you and if not, then it wasn't meant to be. Perhaps someone even more special is around the corner. So once you have cry a few tears, go out and paint the town red! Your value does not depend on a man.
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RE: When you see the person above you......say first word comes to ur mind ?
A dad?