That being said though...I am always interested to know about someone's past....because it is indeed where we have come from that makes us who we are...and it can also explain some things that may have been unexplainable before and lead to a greater understanding of your partner....
Yes I realize that...when I say you...I meant that in a general way....Wellllll I am holding out for the right man...and I realized myself lately that I have a few things left to deal with as well...soooooo I am dealing with those things while waiting for the right man to come into my life...For me I just got tired of unhealthy relationships that lead to nothing but unhappiness and discord in the end soooo now I am at the place where I will not settle for anything less than what I want because I would rather be alone than be in another bad and unhealthy relationship again.
Wellllll I am looking for someone who has the same things to offer as I do...which is honesty...openness...compassion....trust ...romance....consideration...and respect....and the ability to compromise for the best of each person and the relationship...I just haven't found him yet....
I honestly don't think anyone can say they don't have any baggage...if they don't then they either are not being honest with themselves or have lived a pretty sheltered life...The key with baggage is not whether you have any...BUT what you have chosen to do with it...Have you dealt with it and healed from it...OR have you just chosen to push it away until it builds up and comes back to haunt you when you least expect it?????
I think dealing with it and healing from it is obviously the best way before moving on into any relationship...or it's only gonna rear it's ugly head and interfere in your next one...That being said we also may have baggage come up we didn't realize we had...in which case your partner can help you deal with it and heal from it as long as you keep the communication open and don't shut them out....
Unfortunately those men aren't about to be adults or honest...they are a special breed who just don't give a f*ck who they hurt...it's all about them and their ego and that's it...so I wouldn't hold my breath for them to change any... One can only hope that his wife has at least wised up and he won't be married for much longer...
I thought we were yes...BUT then someone who is deceptive like that...isn't really interested in being an adult...just how many women they can play and deceive before they move onto the next one...
I love the way you sit there and stare at me while I eat...as if it's your last meal you'll ever have on earth and I am depriving you of it..along with the little growls under your breath to remind me you're still there....
Yeah I like shorts too..I just find dresses and skirts more comfy and cooler..and nope...no shorts for work....I try to get the thicker cotton so it doesn't...since I hate ironing...
RE: Is Every Woman Shallow??....
Welllllllll they'll be looking for a long time...at least until Ken gets back...