Somenights I'll go to sleep and ask God to help me forget whatever hurts people have caused me..and as crazy as this sounds,it's happened,I've woken up the next day...and honestly can't remember the hurt the person caused me...if that makes any sense.
Got this from a book...I thought it was pretty good.
'TODAY I am learning how to have the ultimate close relationship-with myself.Until I am intimate with myself and treat myself with compassion,kindness,trust,acceptance,and love,I CAN'T BE THE SPOUSE,FRIEND,SON,or father I WANT TO BE. Intimacy involves sharing my deepest fears and secrets while trusting the other person will accept them.This behaviour feels risky to me.I grew up trusting no one,but I KNOW if I KEEP doing what I'VE ALWAYS done,I'LL get what I've always gotten.I want to change.'
To me its like a pendulum,on the left side you got your 20 percent leaders...in the middle there's your 60 PERCENT everyday never do anything right never do anything wrong type normal people,and on the right side,you got your 20 percent of your bains of society,degenerates...whatever YOU WANT TO CALL THEM.
If you were once on the right side of the PENDULUM,and decided to make a change in your life..there's no stopping at normal...
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RE: Forgive and Forget....
Forgive..and sometimes even forget,,,yes.Somenights I'll go to sleep and ask God to help me forget whatever hurts people have caused me..and as crazy as this sounds,it's happened,I've woken up the next day...and honestly can't remember the hurt the person caused me...if that makes any sense.
Not always,,but sometimes.