Certainly everyone has their selection criteria and preferences. And as response on this thread shown, homelessness isn’t everybody’s first choice. Not a wonder: homelessness means additional trouble as a general rule, and who would want to add someone else’s troubles to their own?
<On your point about why would expect someone to date a homeless person...Guess thats up to the indivuals..Why do you date men? And it's a big NO, NO to be in two relationshiops at the same time..(unless of course the couple have set the ground rules out first...)>
(My version of this site refuses sometimes to quote, don’t know why.)
To Pheonix: Read and re-read your post, and couldn’t understand it. (Not that I expected to ) After all, English is your native, and you could make your understood if you wanted.
I won’t google slang, not interested: I have no use for it in my work and I don’t plan any visit to Ulster. I also am not an archeologist, so your referring to ancient times before me has no point in it.
That settled, let’s me remind you that it were you who asked the question, and I was just trying to answer it from my point of view. It’s not me whom you have to convince that it’s ok for a handsome and witty homeless man to date two (or even more) women at the same time, it’s those who you want to date.
That’s true. As they say in Russia: “Disregard not, people, poverty, war, prison and Mumu’s fate…”
No, it doesn’t automatically mean mental health problem or addiction, but nonetheless there’s a reason, at least one, why they are homeless. You never named your reasons for being homeless, but I would guess it’s not “simply no roof over your head just at that short time”, there surely was a chain of events that led to your homelessness. Something you couldn’t handle, some wrong decisions you made, few poor choices, inflexibility, nonchalance, infantile attitude to matters that matter… something like that. And it’s those qualities that make other people, especially women, to give you wider berth.
And besides being homeless, you have proclaimed, more than once actually and rather loudly, that you are in a relationship. Why do you expect someone to wish date a person that is in a relationship? Is it ok for you to be in a relationship and keep dating others at the same time?
Thank you, I’m fine (given circumstances). And according to the latest colour test I’ve taken, it’s my usual state.
I agree that you can’t judge a person by only one test. But isn’t life itself a continuous test that we have to undergo ‘till death would release us from it? I haven’t always done my tests well, but nonetheless I’ve passed a few. Some with rather high scores. (Am I boasting? )
I’m pale-green, according to that test, and I’m quite satisfied with their explanation of what I am:
“ Your dominant hue is green. You're logical and steadfast, focused on figuring life out and doing what makes sense. You value being trusted because you know you're taking the time to figure things out and everyone should just follow you.
Your saturation level is lower than average - You don't stress out over things and don't understand people who do. Finishing projects may sometimes be a challenge, but you schedule time as you see fit and the important things all happen in the end, even if not everyone sees your grand master plan.
Your outlook on life is bright. You see good things in situations where others may not be able to, and it frustrates you to see them get down on everything. “
We live in a material world, and material things matter. To what degree – that differs from person to person.
Actually I have yet to meet someone who always was dealt only good hand in his or her life. Sure there are people born with a silver spoon in their mouth, but the most of us has to make some efforts every single day just to remain on the even keel. And for some every step forward costs blood.
I wouldn’t say “Nope” just because a “good man” doesn’t have roof above his head. But as you said yourself – there are underlying matters for his homelessness. In fact, his homelessness is just the top of the iceberg, while those underlying matters, (alcoholism? drug addiction? gambling?) that led him to homelessness, and that I would say “Nope” to.
I prefer selfish people. Applying that to a relationship (of any kind) it would mean that they are with me because they want it themselves, not of any other reason.
At different times I liked different colours. I had a “green” period, and a “purple” one. Now I like yellow: planted marigolds and sunflowers outside my back door. And soon it’ll be autumn and everything will turn yellow and red and gold. And then there will be this beautiful smell of fallen leaves. Almost as good as the smell of the sea…
Looks like I’m more sensitive to smells: it happens that I fall in love with a smell and just have to buy it. But after a short while I’ll become tired of it and have to change. And it was like that as long as I can remember myself.
As to “naturally smelly”… Men sweat more than women and hence do indeed produce more smell. But what has it to do with being homeless? Male home owner sweats as any next man.
Such an advanced technology. Means everybody can be framed as a scammer.
Considering my age of 110 years No, I got no doubt
110 years old? Exactly what I’m looking for! See, a 50-yearer lives on and on and on… as a cracked vinyl record, no end to his misery. While a 110-yearer is sprightly one day, and the next: Op-pa!.. and god taketh. Quite a catch.
RE: Would you date someone who is homeless
Certainly everyone has their selection criteria and preferences. And as response on this thread shown, homelessness isn’t everybody’s first choice. Not a wonder: homelessness means additional trouble as a general rule, and who would want to add someone else’s troubles to their own?