I agree.. I cant reeeeally see myself getting married again. I KIND OF want to.. I like the idea of getting it 'right' this time..
BUT!!!.. the thought of making SUCH a commitment to someone and thinking we maybe stuck together forever.. and that I have made a huge mistake.. kind of puts me off.. haha..
I dunno..
Oh anyway.. that wasn't really the question was it.. I was mostly just carrying on what Tina was saying..
I know when I have been in the middle of some of the crappiest times and situations.. I ALWAYS time to keep in mind that I will LEARN something from this..
It might be freaking me out.. it might be bad.. BUT! it's not going to kill me.. it's not going to end my life.. just maybe alter it a little.. but I will learn something and become (again) a wiser person for it.
Time has sometimes been an issue in past relationships.
Sometime my doing.. and sometimes theirs.
I like the best of both.. I like my time.. time for me.. and my hobbies and friends or whatever.. MY space.
I also like to spend good quality time with my partner.. and I LIKE that they spend time with their friends/ hobbies etc..
I think it gives you more to talk about when yo ARE together because you both don't already know exactly what the other has been doing.. so that brings conversations.
You BOTH need your own space in a relationship imo.. space to be yourself and do your thing..
I know Morgan.. there isn't anything you can do.. except be there for them and listen.. Which is extra hard.. because you are so upset too.. I'm so sorry.
RE: Are you ready for a long-term relationship?
Oo Hi Harry!I didn't recognise you.. in bed.. and without your hat on..
::busts into Tom Jones::: ~ Yooo caannnn leeeeave yourrrr haaaat onnnnn..
haha.. anywayyy...