Because it's far easier to live a selfish life rather than an unselfish one where you have to constantly consider another person...and to work at the relationship. Not hard to figure out really.
I think even in the written word people have a good idea of the others character and know what buttons to press,those people being the ones who like to cause trouble that is.
I don't use this site to date, but on the other site I'm on there are some really good men among the many many time wasters....I think know we just need to get smarter in sussing them out.
Anna, you seem like a fair person who gives everyone a hearing when really a lot of them are merely delete and block!!
RE: Do women spend too much on clothes, make-up and mobile phones?
How much did you pay for it