That part of the world doesn't appeal to me ...never did... Canada all the way!!!! You can teach me a few strings on the guitar!!..and I can get a cuddle from Lonnie!!!!
Certainly Jono....but she has brought it up to him several times but to no avail....but howsever her household her problem...just dont like to see my friend taken advantage of...
People being disposable is something that doesn't sit well with me. People raise kids and go through the ups and downs but don't ever give up on that human being because they were born of us.
Yet because we don't have the biological bond with a romantic partner there has to sometimes be a time limit and a condition on it.
Wouldn't it be nice to get to a time when no one is over looked..no one is given up on... no one is born looking for trouble yet it finds us at different times and differing degrees...how we deal with them is proportionate to how well evolved we are...
Isn't relating to others a big reason there are wars....murders....endless fighting.
If you like control in a relationship...if you like to be the one making the decisions...if you like to be the main bread winner and make more than your other half, are these not in some way making your other half suffer in some way...even though you may see them as being pluses to you. Yet we seek conditions over our other half.... Don't ever hit me cheat on me verbal upset me etc etc. Is because one side is slightly more severe than the other that you have the upper hand in deciding that you are more hard done by.
Yes I have been in a relationship with one in the past. Yes We do have one life to live and the success of it should be calculated on not only how well we looked after ourselves but on how well we looked after others too
Wasn't my intention to make you look like anything...it's was a natural question after the answer you gave me.
The addiction can come independently of the person you are with...it's their own reaction to something that has happened to them...not something anyone can forsee coming.
When you can do so without regret then that's sometime. I have ways felt regret over not having tried harder or being the better person at times. Maybe what I'm seeking in a relationship is unattainble for me or anyone else. But what I do gather from human nature and evolution is that we are always trying to do better and be better than the generations before us...so shouldn't this be evident in how we interact and deal with people no matter how different they are to us
That's certainly one factor...if there are, in the end no good times...I guess when our own mental health is compromised....that could be a reason to walk away...when there isn't even one strong member of a union in the end it would be best to walk away.
I still wouldn't walk away from someone who lied or cheated straight away...I would still need to have a discussion...see where the problem arose for them to feel they had to act that way. I guess what I'm trying to find out is why does anyone, in their own flawfull selves feel that flaws in another are not to be worked through when all we want for ourselves is love from someone with our flaws and all.
So love really is the answer to the question...it's the amount of love you feel that gets you through...when it's not necessarily what makes a relationship all on its own.
We all make ourselves miserable though, in some degree, even if it isn't self evident...take for instance we are all here making ourselves miserable in the hopes of finding someone...in the hopes of trying to get through to someone an opinion without an argument..yet we don't give up on this place....is it considered a good trait to stick with someone to the very end even though they may have a major flaw...or is it better to walk away.
I agree with that....but what if they don't see it....do you simply give up on a person because they lack a bit of insight....we all ignore parts of ourselves in the hopes someone will love us regardless...no one is perfect....do you give up on someone because they don't see they are an alcoholic ..when the other person may not see that they are, let's say a bit of a control freak but all along expected to be loved regardless.
Let's say it's an alcoholic....love isn't the question...but the addiction has taken over and stopped them from having the ability to maintain an semblence of a relationship....how long is long enough to stick with them through that addiction.
Yes especially in his era it would have been a even bigger deal than it would be nowadays....to imagine you can't marry a divorcee is madness...glad he chose her over his country...it was possibly the turning point of changing the behaviours in that family.
What do you consider to be irreparable.....I get trust and cheating are the main ones and they are deal breakers for me.
But when someone has slight difficulties with relationships and communication isn't the best with them...do you try to show them compassion and stick with them.
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RE: Where Do You See Yourself In 5 Years?
LOL.I think it was well before my time...only here just over a year.
But he sounds like a good time lol