Life isn't just about doing what's good for us, Let. Personally, I hate it when people give me sound advice, it invariably involves giving up the things I like.
I need advice about keeping track of the threads I've posted on. Sometimes I might have four or five on the go and forget which ones they are. On most forums they send an email notification every time there's a new post on a thread that you've been involved with, but here, you have to remember and keep checking. That's not easy when you've got a mind like a sieve. I was just wondering how everyone else coped with it.
I think a preference for spending a significant amount of time on my own is probably a consequence of being an only child. I'm not particularly independent, self reliant or confident.
I suppose you must know what you're doing but I can't think of any good reason for avoiding causing them offence. Why not let them make the first move by stopping deserving to be offended?
RE: 8th of March- International Women's Day
I've decided I'm going to designate the 9th of March as international men with white hair day. I hope you are all going to celebrate it.