The hide my profile for a while...I had to rewrite it, actually be honet, jeeze.....how sucky....I am at work, actually, goofing off...not much time to be evil now...must go to lunch soon....so much to do....so much to do
I know it is completely unfair, unreasonable, etc. I am only about 5'2" but am only attracted to men 5' 10-11" , 5' 9" is probably the shortest man I've ever been with.....just what is attractive to me....no rhyme or reason and can't justifiy it....
Well, I think the genetically based issues mentioned are probably the reason for what I witnessed....those factors are the only real thing that can account for it...I realize it is still not the individuals fault...but it is not always the fault of environment and nurturing either...think how you are hurting parents who have a child like this and have done everything right...they blame themselves, just like society seems to blame them, even though they cant figure out what they are doing wrong....it is very unfair...
None of this happened to this child......nothing like this, quite the opposite, in fact. As I said, I know what went on inside the home because i was there....
i have observed this situation first hand....i don't know, but i think there is a genetic defect that scientists will one day isolate...but it does happen, I KNOW!!....despite all the love and kindness and advantages...etc.
My question and the concept of the thread come from personal experience and observation, as I suspect does the inspiration for Lessing's novel. What about, if the kid is bad from the git-go...that is, bad from early childhood....hasn't had a chance to get messed up by bad family life or influences, has, infact, a very good family and all the siblings are just fine...but has been behaving badly from the beginning and gets worse and worse as time passes, even though the family, school, social welfare workers, doctors, etc. are all doing their best to help...to fix...to cure....whatever....
Do you think, as people get older, their behavior changes and becomes more 'mature' or dignified because that is how they naturally feel with aging, or because it is the way you are supposed to act as you get older?????
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Dignified Behavior
They...they hid my profile..the powers that be....