I broke it off with one guy cause that's all he did was run his exs down so I just told him that our relationship wasn't going to work.I have my own baggage( suitcases) at home in my closet.
To me it depends on what it was that someone does to hurt me.I was taught growing up not to hate anyone.I may dislike someone for how they act but hate never.
I know so have I and have had to suffer the consequences for my actions.I'm far from being perfect and without flaws and haven't always made the right choices and have the battle scares to prove it.
It's not in my nature to knowingly/purposely hurt someone but like I said I'm not perfect along with having flaws and I'm still learning by the mistakes I make.
That's how I am in regards in not choosing to be walking around being mad all the time.It's not only a pain it's not worth wasting my engery on.Besides like you I loose all my feelings for that person and don't feel as close to them as I once did.
But it would all "Depend" on whether I'd have to share the money with that particular grocery store. Oh no now my eyes are watering from laughing so hard.
Forgive and Forget.
I agree.I've forgiven people may times for what they may done to me but I never forget.