One time when the power went out I was searching for something to put on and discovered I had mistook a plastic grocery bag for a pair of slacks.Now whenever I see a plastic bag I start laughing.
If someone does or says something to hurt you and they apologize to you afterwards and you've forgiven them but don't forget does that mean that you haven't really forgiven them in the first place?
I'm not the kind of person who holds grudges against anyone who does something to hurt me.I just accept their apology and move on.I just let Karma do it's job instead.
One of my older brothers while in China met and was going to marry a girl from there but she didn't wish to leave her country and her parents.He's hung onto the ring and watch that he bought her all this time.He still has the picture that he took of her before he left China which he keeps on his night stand by his bed plus the one he has in his billfold and the one setting on his coffee table.He must've loved her very very much cause he's remained single all these years.He refuses to date anyone else.
See it does alot of good just to write things out and vent and cry.I did alot of crying,venting and crying yesterday but I'm fine today and in alot better mood too.
My mother used to make me so angry at times that we'd get into quite a few arguements.Then one day I approached her and told her that I needed to have a heart to heart talk with her.Sometimes it helps to just sit down with them face to face and just explain how you're feeling.
Or just do what I did yesterday and just write a letter to tell them your feelings.
When someone does something to hurt me or makes me angry rather than hold it inside I write it down in letter form and give it to them.Cause if you let things and the hurt fester it does you more harm then good.Once I wrote it down and got what was bothering me off my chest I felt much better.
It would depend on the circumstances of how he became unemployed in the first place.If he turned out to be a lazy bum no I wouldn't support him.If he had a disabiliity and couldn't ever work yes I would.If there were kids involved yes I would expect him to do his share of child rearing.As for the housework well no I wouldn't expect him to do all of it.We would both do our share.
Dan this no way shape or form is meant in a mean spirted way but maybe if you would've explained to C that you were in dire straits from the very begining and that you needed some space to get yourself straightened out she may have understood and not been upset with how you handled/left things.I learned along time ago that I have to take care of MY needs first and foremost.
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RE: Can you do it in the dark ?
One time when the power went out I was searching for something to put on and discovered I had mistook a plastic grocery bag for a pair of slacks.Now whenever I see a plastic bag I start laughing.