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Sep 17, 2009

RE: Letting Go

Hi snuggs. I don't care what others think. It's solely about my choice to move on with my life.It's not that I didn't care about the loss it's the fact that it wouldn't be fair to the new man in my life if the loss of my late husband was a contant reminder to him.

As for others judging others.Well while they have one finger pointing someone else they have a thumb and 3 other fingers pointing right back at themselves.

Sep 17, 2009

RE: Letting Go

I know from my own experience that letting go of the loss of a loved one is difficult to do.But I eventually found the courage and strength to do it.Letting go for me was accepting the fact that there was nothing I could do to change what had happened.I figure 2 yrs was enough for grieving so I moved on.

Sep 17, 2009

RE: Starting Over

Nope I wouldn't go back into that old relationship.I'd move on.

Sep 17, 2009

RE: Starting Over

I would be civil with my ex for the kids sake.

Sep 17, 2009

RE: Starting Over

If children were involoved I would remain civil with my ex for their sake only.

If the children were grown up my answer like above would still be the same.I would be civil with their father.

Sep 17, 2009

RE: How you prefer to be?

You can live together and still have a commitment.Sheesh.

Sep 17, 2009

RE: Starting Over

But what if you didn't learn anything?

Sep 17, 2009

RE: Starting Over

But some people refuse to or don't want to they'd much rather bring their excess baggage into the new relationship.

Sep 17, 2009

RE: Tell me what you want.

I'd like to see the day come when women aren't so mean to other women.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: Starting Over

Hi Peal nice to see you too.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: Would you date me?

Now that is soooo funny.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: is there any decent men out there??

is there any decent men out there??

In my opinion yes there is.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: How you prefer to be?

Sep 16, 2009

RE: How you prefer to be?

I agree.I was marriage once and had a very happy marriage but don't wish to have anymore kids so why should I get married again.Sometimes things can become way to complicated.Just makes more sense to just live together.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: Starting Over

If it was my fault that I was any way responsible for the breakup of my relationships I would admit I was at fault.

About taking a stance and give it a another go I really don't know.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: How you prefer to be?

I'd much rather have a partner and no marriage.Then if it doesn't work out we both can go our separete ways.Just easier is all.He takes what's his and I keep what's mine.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: If u don't find...

I refuse to settle for just anyone.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: CUT ME SOME SLACK!

It's not about you it's about their own insecurites and I guess that they try to drag someone else down to their level to make themselves look better.I wouldn't let those kinds of people get to you.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: WOMEN,WHAT KIND OF MEN DO YOU LIKE.

The kind of man who's not afraid to show his emotions.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: Best thing

What is the best thing about men?

I'd have to say everything about them is the best.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: What's cooking

I love salads so I'm having Layered Salad

Lettuce,shredded carrots,shredded red cabbage,chopped smoked ham,frozen peas thawed,red onion sliced and separated into rings,Miracle Whip salad dressing,grated parmesan cheese,sugar,shredded cheddar cheese and 1 tomato chopped.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: What's The Weather Like In Your Area?

Partly Cloudy and 75

Sep 16, 2009

RE: if they really needed you to..............

Sorry but I wouldn't.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: What's cooking

When I make mine I put it in the dutch oven on simmer and cook it all day.I also put onion in it as well.Along side of it I make cornbread.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: I was just told...........

Pat I doubt if there's anything I could teach you that you don't already know.

You could probably teach us a few things tho.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: Starting Over

Nope

Sep 16, 2009

RE: do u know wat love is???

Love is when you get up every morning facing and sharing the drab/hard times of everyday life with that person.You're there for the good,bad and all the in between times.Love is called working on a relationship as teammates.JMO

Sep 16, 2009

RE: Talk to a fool. Man I am such an idiot

If you're referring to me never.It takes an awful lot to upset me.I grew up with 3 older brothers.

So stick em up stick em up

Sep 16, 2009

RE: Talk to a fool. Man I am such an idiot

Don't get me involved in your B busting party.

Sep 16, 2009

RE: Talk to a fool. Man I am such an idiot

Asleep what's with the rolleyes about.Well he has been nice to me.

I can roll my eyes too.

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