For some posters here these unwritten laws stretch farther then male/female topic --
their bruised egos don't allow them to discuss any subject, the only ways they can feel better about themselves is by making personal attacks on OP. That's how they roll.
I don't think setting high expectations makes a difference.
IMO, it's about two people being very much into each other. Making the right choice initially (vs. going on&on experimenting endlessly) makes all the difference.
RE: ALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!!!