Hey you ll learn as you go along, put it down to experience. There ARE good blokes out there, just gotta find them. There are others though, some seem to get a kick out of getting a date organised, some are drifters and just move on and on to another profile. . .more arrange a date for the sole purpose of getting the leg over . .and worse still if it s not working out their way they get abusive! You are not the only one, you re not the first and no doubt wont be the last and its nothing you did . .or didnt do. . . Hope this gives you an insight and clears a bit of the confusion, hardhitting for some, but shooting from hip.
I m getting the impression that you 2 got close on here, the let down obviously has you feeling bad, its the big downside of the internet thing that you have to accept goes with the territory with some on here and elsewhere. Sadly you ll have to do a bit of weeding and toss them aside. Dont let it put you off. .onwards and upwards!
Look he shouldnt have left you hanging like that, you come across on the forums in general as a lovely person, good craic and also of course have looks to die for so if he cant see that he s just not worth wasting another ounce of energy even thinking about him. You re obviously feeling let down and need answers . .unfortunately you might just have to resign yourself to not getting any.
Just saw this thread . . .he s ummm yea . . .he s oh ya he s doing a bit of work for me, ya thats it. .work . .was at short notice you see and sure seeing as its my fault . . can i make it up to you
seems we have also thrown a spanner in the works with regard to their chances of winning the world cup as well! Oh and one of their players called it an embarassment!
get someone to drive a long steel bar into the ground . .see what its like . .it might not have been great to start with. . .if you can loosen it and get a couple of stone (chips or pea gravel) put in it should help, dig a deep hole in low corner and fill with stone. You can keep seeding and doing cosmetic work but unless its addressed that problem will stay with you. Otherwise start growing the grass in the attic, paint the window and enjoy
Well you definitely in bother with drainage anne . . .you d even have to pin astro turf to it to keep it in place B s painted window easiest way out. Are there walls around your garden or just a fence. Are you much lower than next door? Do you know if the original ground was raised or lowered?
Anne its a difficult one without seeing it. If there s no grass left at all and you ve bare soil it would be best re seeded. You d need to have the wet areas drained and find a spot for the water to go. Connect into a storm drain via a special manhole to trap silt or else a soakpit reqd if ground suitable and dig any compacted areas to loosen any daub. Have seen back gardens basically taken out and replaced they were that badly done and also minor works. How was it last summer? Best get a local have a look at it that knows the lie of the land but at same time not someone hungry for work that could charge well
awww poor you . . .been in that boat most of the week . .was so bad the doc said it must be the man flu . .bad dose of it going about this year! Now if you had looked after me last week i d give you a good seeing to looking after this week
Ming
Thats him. .grown up a bit now but still would like it legalised