Both, I want both. At the moment, I am suffering through both in separate people. One day, I hope to have both in one person. You can't necessarily just 'get' it, it depends on who you meet. I don't currently have anyone in my acquaintance that is offering both together...
Giving them too much seems to be a death sentence. I don't know if it's the whole 'conquering' thing... I think there's a part of men that really does like to do the chasing. If we're too available, the chase is lost and they lose interest. Maybe the trick is balance: don't give more than they do. If you're a natural nurturer, find something else to 'give' to, like volunteer work or something. Keeps you busy, and them guessing...
Well, if two people have a genuine respect for each other's differences, I think you can live with just about everything on this list, if you don't mind separate vacations, spending time in separate rooms, and generally spending time apart. People are different and live lots of different lifestyles, so why not?
The one issue that would be irreconcileable would about having kids. You can't just agree to disagree on that one...
Every woman wants something different, just like every man. Stop trying to pidgeon hole us into one neat grocery list you can use to go shopping. Our wants and desires are as unique as each man we meet. Each of you has wonderful unique characteristics...
Figure out what YOU want, and then just be yourself.
Hey, Handsome, I don't if you're speaking about yourself in the above, although I would tend to think you are. Let me just say that there is a very real danger in isolating yourself when you are experiencing depression. If you can't find an empathetic friend to talk to, please see a counselor.
Men with deep feelings do not turn me off. I am a deep thinking and feeling person - despite what anyone may have seen me post on the forums. I am alway open to talk to people about stuff, and have often gone off the forums to talk to people privately when I see that they are suffering and need to vent. A man willing to talk openly is a HUGE turn on for me, as long as the sentiment is mutual. If it isn't, that's ok, but it becomes a therapeutic relationship as opposed to a friendship / relationship. There's nothing wrong with either scenario, as long as the boundaries are clear. If you are looking for a woman who wants to listen to you, be willing to listen to her. Be the friend you wish you had.
Well, partly, I don't want to be used as an item designed to give some guy something to talk to his buddies about, or improve his game for the next chick. Partly, because I have teenage daughters at home and I am just not prepared for whatever mayhem might occur in bringing home a much younger guy. Partly, I need an adult. I guess that sounds prejudiced, but there is a difference between a young stud and a mature man. I want someone seasoned, mature, responsible, and in my stage of life.
Find a young woman, Honey. Why do you want an older woman?
Put a little humour in your profile. "BTW, I know I'm too hot to pass by, but hey, this dish is only for the ladies. Thanks anyway, but I don't respond to men. Toodles!"
Let's buy matching rocking chairs!!! We can all put some money in and buy an island, and laugh at each other trying to play lawn bowling, the whole damned prideful lonely single lot of us!!
Oh, you're cute, Honey. You're damned HOT! But, like the others who have gone before me, I'm old enough to be your mother. (19??? Are you kidding me??) I'd like to introduce you to my daughter... She'll be 18 in August, looking for a nice young man..
RE: i,m a little angry toniht
I'd say he already broke his 'loyalty'. I hope I don't have any 'friends' like that...