ahh, you see it that way , in truth having knowing and havng an exit plan is the most important... its not a blind date that only lats a few hours ...no this action of renting your home to a stranger is much more than that.
I never stated all tenants are 'No Good' I said perfect tenats are rare as hens teeth.
the deceit you speak of is a safty and insurance measure, imagine little kids ae told do not touch s long as parents in room the kid will not touch, bu tif another kid is watching this same kid the behavoir is and can be different.
being a first time landlord is a challenge and having the tenant in the same dwelling makes it moore so.
yeah my wallets been emptied a time or two when kicking a tenat to the curb.
both times it involved intially by appearance good people with children and bad breaks.
another thought... this is deceiving but, allow the new tenat to think you are not the homeowner or person in charge. you are middle management, or just another tenat.
perfect tenats as rare as hens teeth. you need some type of legal document, check with local authorities about eviction procedures,
remember You cannot just snap your fingers and 'poof' tenat problem gone...especially if they have children or on state subsidies.
be careful becoming freinds with tenats.... thats one of those dangerous slippery slopes of life. if it goes bad you lose not only a few dollars but a freind as well.
I believe any drowning man regardless of his prejudices or bigotry will grab whatever hand is ofered him to save what he cherishes or have worked for all his life... It has been proven.
now to say they will coming running to you, in time as you prove your capabilities, they will everyone hates changes they did not instigate
final thought,word of mouth is the best advertising agent yo can hope to have. Go get'em Urs, the reward and iner pride from helping those in need especially those who did not want your help is enormous and the endorphines that get released in ot your system form doing it ...WHAT A RUSH
ok does the person go into the relationship blind,,( so starved for the attentions, affections,or beguiled by the words) that regardless of what they other does ..as long as their wants are fulfilled nothing else matters .
as of late I've begun questioning what this "Unconditional" love entails.... and after reading some previous posts... I do not think I am capable of unconditional love except for maybe siblings, parents and my children and even then I had to use the word maybe.
which brings the other thought... is blind or unconditional love of a wife a good thing?? and the realization that I honestly had to pause and think about it.... it saddens me.
I too made the best of a work day. made many small retailers happy to see me and my plow doing their parking lots. but on the good side I have 4 or 5 of the "buy one dinner get one free" burning a whole i my pocket... who knows maybe I'll find a woman who apprieciates a frugal coupon using man ..such as myself.
unfortunately I do let the doctors tell me whats wrong with me. I am ..skeptical, of all these medications that are being prescribed because a test shows high numbers above normal... (Who decides what normal? ) I prefer to adapt my diet then join the pill poppers association.
Understand, I see this late in life pill popping like joining the AARP once you join you'll always be a member.
It starts off with one or two pills, then two months later tests are done and damn if they don't prescribe another plll to take and 2 months later the same and so on and so on.
I do not beleive i have had the opportunity to meet anyone who once starts o medications ever again to be free of doing daily doses. Minus those who get pain medication.
this is not a "I'm mad as hell and not gonna take it anymore post."
this is how I have decided to live the rest of my years. pills that do not cure are an expense I choose not to have.
I like to think every date or second or third date will lead to a Lasting relationship... its the terms that develope thru those dates and time together that brings them to an end... and no it ain't always my fault....
yeah detroit has those we call them "manhole covers"they bundle up in the fetal positon over the manhole it must be warm beacuse even the concrete arounfd some of those manholes is melted and dry.
ya think ??? me grumpy... like wow well if nothing else, I'm real, I worry about those that are happy all the time a well as those that hate themselves so much they hate the world...i like to think myself to be... well balanced
Although your "terms" I can agree with anyday it seems when beginning a relationship to offer just that is not enough, many want to hear some indication referring to time. Ex. how long was your last relationship, what about the one b4 that, how long since youe last reltionship... all these require a "time" answer.
When peace is secured throughout the region... Iraq will have no useful purpose..
those countries would best be advised to form a NATO of sorts a consortium of all countries and manner of faith. (without US involvement)
it seems the only ones not armed to the teeth are the ones who are in agreement with the US ideology... leaving/ abandoning them would send a terrible message to other countries that want a form of democracy and our help.
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who knows maybe I'll find a woman who apprieciates a frugal coupon using man ..such as myself.
RE: Need advice on renting out a room to a stranger.
ahh, you see it that way , in truth having knowing and havng an exit plan is the most important... its not a blind date that only lats a few hours ...no this action of renting your home to a stranger is much more than that.I never stated all tenants are 'No Good' I said perfect tenats are rare as hens teeth.
the deceit you speak of is a safty and insurance measure, imagine little kids ae told do not touch s long as parents in room the kid will not touch, bu tif another kid is watching this same kid the behavoir is and can be different.
being a first time landlord is a challenge and having the tenant in the same dwelling makes it moore so.
I stand by my suggesions.