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RE: Dreams.....

I had a dream ..
I dreamt i was in a Hollywood movie,
this really blew my mind....














forget the rest of the lyrics

disagreeing and how to handle it.

Buenos dais Ojazosl

disagreeing and how to handle it.

personally I have to maintain a professional attitiude and demeanor at work (at all times). I will admit i need to vent at times. being civil and nice to uneducated or obnoxious individuals...Well quite frankly it drains me.

my family my adult children and sisters, I get worked up when they come to me for assistance and answers, then ignore or belittle my answer/ help.

RE: WHAT'S THE FIRST THING YOU WOULD DO IF YOU WERE FORCED TO LIVE IN THE BODY OF GEORGE BUSH ?

follow clintons example..
reagan enjoyed jelly beans
clinton enjoyed/enjoys the affections of numerous women

RE: i am 27 years old,how can i share something with an 40 or 50 year old man?

I agree with this response, for many reasons. walk away from it or do like so many others feed your body enough drugs or medications where you become comfortably numb. but I strongly suggest the first walk away generation gap is too much froyou to overcome.....

shame too.... some of in that age bracket have the phyiscal ability, finances and desire to enjoy and share many of lifes pleasures and sights. with a woman in your age bracket.

disagreeing and how to handle it.

Everyone, every couple , every family at one time or another disagree. Even at our places of employment it occurs.

Depite the control we think we used when the disagreement happened someone will always say "you could of handled it differently"
When disagreement occur in your life, and you know without reservation you are correct, how do you respond or handle the disagreememt, does who the person is make a difference? say comparitivelyspeaking, : freind opposed to family...or store clerk opposd to co-worker?? then compares all these to a stranger does it make a difference? how is most likely to get your "kettle steaming? who would get more of a response from you ?

does it even enter your mind who the peson is in your life when times like these occur.

RE: Just how attached can one get with this internet dating?

too many lonely, starved for atention this is a slippery slope to be on.
I guess the worst is, no one is immune, We all want to love and be loved outside of our family, The interent intimcy and chatting is inticing and it does fill many voids in all our lives, one way or another.
Getting attached is inevidiable....it's how attached we become is something only experience and time can groom. it's in our nature to develop happy lasting relatinships with others.why should it not be the same with those who participate in internet ??


Admittedly, I am a hopeful skeptic..... I believe in time this will be the venue with which I will meet a woman, who sets my heart a racing and my engine at high idle, hopefully 24/7...
Ok, I'll accept 16/7


Sucky feeling is part of it all, if was easy to find that "better=half" websites like this one would cease to exist in time , but as most know its probably the biggest growing internet business today.

RE: Just how attached can one get with this internet dating?

qualify?? woman 45 , 2 children 16, nad 12, sits home and "chats" online husband ( one of my buddys) works and attends school getting a degree, in less than a year she " found someone who really "understood " her. she left her entire familywithout so much as a goodbye to anyone including her sisters and family. 6 months later she calls needs money and asks for forbiveness.....

so yeah a A good wordsmith can tie knts into someones heart strings and yes it is very possible to become to attached,

I've read of totally opposite endings of internet dating, but come on,

In the search for love there are always more failures then successes. Which is why when we find the "real McCoy/Deal" , we should not take it so lightly and hang on with every fiber in our being, and sadly we have to fight for it too.

RE: High hopes consume the love?

I agree expectattions of the "one and only" can cause disillusionment. Most here are presenting a product much like advertising so many embellish. I thnk so anyway.

I try to show my good side sometimes, other times I figure i need to display my "other side" and those in between. I think I do this by answer in detail ( some say long winded )

yeah, expectations can be harmful

RE: Who on here is really shy...

title caught my eye...
but read the restof post..............................nevermind

RE: Is There ever a reason to keep a secret from your partner??

Wholeheartedly agree with ya...

secrets are in many ways a thread that helps one maintain individuality so to speak.

There are unlimited things two can share about daily life, still ,as secrets go... most in time reveal themselves...

The rscope of 'secrets' is vast, to vast in my opinion to geive a yes or no answer.

RE: It's Official

always good to hear of tow sould finfding each other... it instills and replenishies the hope for us who still seekthe same. Congrwatulations to you both

RE: Why do...

i try to understand how intelligent people can do it then with a straight face justify or blame their "betterhalf" for their actions.

Don't misunderstand me,

I believe when and where infidelity is concerned especially those in long term relationship ( 6 months ain't Long term) their is enough blame to go around.... imagine not knowing when your sweethaeart is unhappy or unsatisfied.... it is a coomon problem the blame should be shared.

as for those flings (2 months to 12 months) if they cheat during that time its safe t say they ain't getting what they want/need from you.


thats my story and I'm stickin to it...

RE: Name 5 things that would make a great relationship

i personally know of too many happy and successful relationships where honesty has its place. so does individuality and differing of opinions on issues

so to keep a sweethearts B/P or maintian serenity, many successful couples have little secrets from each other.
That if known, mean nothing but it does upets the sweethart that because they simply do not like it.... so why rock the boat.

example

going to a game tell the missus or sweetheart just gong to get bleacher seats and well... so we get box seat instead along the 3rd base line instead .... now she thinks seating at a game in the bleachers is nuts when the games is televised, but you enjoy the game no matter where you sit..only , you enjoy it better along the 3rd base line no one gets hurt yet both maintain their individuality. yeah honesty is great but like all thngs to much of a good thing "total honesty" yuck .

RE: Can you have amazing chemistry with someone you have never met?

theres a word for everyone........ Vulnerable

RE: Can you have amazing chemistry with someone you have never met?

just feel like patting people on the head today

RE: Name 5 things that would make a great relationship

ahh honesty a word that can cover so much and then so little...

Example... tell me if this is covered in your defintion of honesty.

wife and her husbands sister are shopping.
The wife says "EWww I love those 300 dollar sandals ."
Sister of husband says "won't my brother be pissed if you but them???

Wife responds " what he don't know won't hurt him"

my question is does your" honesty" cover that or is that a non- important thing sorta like a white lie?

RE: Can you have amazing chemistry with someone you have never met?

I hold a good thought for you on that

RE: Name 5 things that would make a great relationship

albeit honesty is indeed a scarce trait.... i think it takes more than any'one" thing to even hopt to have a great realtionship.

RE: Can you have amazing chemistry with someone you have never met?

I beleive in what you are saying, but from internet expereince ? I 've yet to feel it.

RE: Why men swers endless love to many women at the same time????

those are not men .

RE: Name 5 things that would make a great relationship

respect
conviction
cmpromise
quality
quantity

RE: Mention 5 things could use a man/woman to flirt you!

it's more refreshing than bad from my veiwpoint.

RE: Mention 5 things could use a man/woman to flirt you!

I think you are interested in "many" things

RE: Mention 5 things could use a man/woman to flirt you!

sounds like purchasing to me ...its not what you spend its how you use your time while dong it.

RE: Mention 5 things could use a man/woman to flirt you!

attention, unnuendos, eye contact, and ttime appropiate compliments, Oh and the key to their room gets my attention too

RE: Be carefull with the internet generation guys

I agree. have seen in life people flirt in public but the flirting on the internet is a different level al together.
I kno wof some who have left family and walked away form 10 yea marraige becuase of this flirting and internet connection possibilities. some real heartbreaking stories.

much like the tale where one got involved with another who they "thought" was literally thousands of miles away... well you can figure out the end of the tale ...the person was actually only miles away....yep it destroyed that persons life when the internet flirt buddy went knock knocking on th the door.

RE: Okay, how many people play golf here...

never been , i did one or two at Kiawah Island in SC

RE: Okay, how many people play golf here...

yeah I golf, not as much as in the past but i've freinds that will treat me everynow and then. was a 16 handicap once now I'm the guy who appraoches the 19th with an M T ball bag but i can still awe some with my chip shot.

RE: WHO LIKES TO DRINK COFFE...AND WHY????

ain;'t coffee an aphrodiasiac??? I know with the right company sharing a cup with me,t it works that way ....