heres the thing about that line of thinking... it sounds really good when you saying it to someone. but it really upsets thse who have to hear it usually on a daily basis.
yeah it sounds good coming out.... but its received like fingersnails on the chalkboard going in.....
there is this to consider currently the jails are full, but if this growth in gambling continues, i see banks and lending institutions building a form of debtors prison... Folks, be they gamblers or not indebeted to creditors and banks and lending institution would be ordered by the government to work off their debt to these institutions in ... I don't know what ever they have training in.. Those without substanial training can do the general laborer tasks say clean up those foreclosed homes maybe rent these folks out to factories or road side maintenece...
yeah I can see it now...... who here thinks the banks and lending institutions will sit idly by and take a loss......
remember Katrina and all those insurance companies denying claims and filing bankruptcy???? and the thought htat the bankers are loaning these casino builders moneys is just too ironic
I bel;ieve if the U.S. government could devise a plan/stragedy to legalize all the other "sins" and "addictive products" that are out there they would.....In time I believe they will, it will all be legal and taxed if for no other reason than the revenue from the taxes.
look how big the lottery has grown in ten years,
wonders when public schools will begin offering classes in runnng casino table games,
imagine this "hey mom/dad I got an 'A' in dealing blackjack and teachers says if I do good on dealing Texas hold'em the scouts from the casinos will be visiting the school next fall., and they always looking for peolpel with multitalents skills..."yada yada yada there's nothing wrong with being a dealer at a casino.
then theres always that horticulture class coming soon to a school near you "cannibis on a shoestring budget"
those that claim "no head games" shouldbe blunt and admit it openly,
that they're simpltons they can be molded and reshaped and led by the nose simply by words and a touch or two. granted some take Head Games to a extreme and that goes for attention and afection some take those to extremes but come on folks to be so flippant as to say "NO HEAD GAMES" u are only depriving yourself.
I still find it hard to comprehend that to have a true love I have to travel across the continent or the pond to find my true love... it just is not an idea or concept i'll accept... its the grass in greener on the other side of the fence thing, I'm too old and wise to believe that. for those who travel from country to country yeah there love could be anywhere bu tto us who do not evenhave a valid passport... its just the way things are ,my morning .02
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3. Are you aware of and do you emphasize your best personal qualities? Yes No Sort of
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to calculate your score. You will receive two points for every "Yes," one point for "Sort of," and no points for every "No." Add up the results.
fireliter Forum Posts (5,902)
I came out of this a trainwreck
RE: what do u usually do when u are worried?
so how the living worry free be treatin ya???