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RE: Out Of Your League

I enjoy statements like that , "You're outta my league"


that can be taken in so many ways

as a compliment

as a back handed sort of insult

as Cristina says we just don't match...

even,

you live by different standards or rules then they do.



How Did you interpret It ?

RE: You know you do ,but never said it.

same happen to me and my 10 speed bicycle....

RE: how many times can you fall in love?

whatever the correct answer is they should have some type of insurance.

If it fails or the fall itself is too great and the landing causes injury of the emotional heart. one should be compensated the revenue that is made by every business when two individuals fall in love is enormous. there should be insurance to help in the recovery if the venture fails

to be known as :

Comprehensive Relationship Accidental Protection, referred in office as
R
A
P
policy

RE: how to behave with inactive man?

attention is a 2-way street, in any facet of the relationship at the kitchen table, on the sofa, in the car, and in the bedroom. If just one breaks down it doeseventually effect all others.

excuses I don't use excuses I use reasons whether they are seen as valid thats a separate issue to be addressed. but if you ain't getting what you want you both need to get up and stand in the "my fault" line.

Maybe while standing in that line you'll both get a chance to see what the real issue is that has caused the situation you now both are dealing with.

If everyone says "It's not me" when in a relationship what perverted kind of relationship could they possible have ?

RE: how to behave with inactive man?

still trying to grasp what way he is "inactice"
Does he sit on the front stoop all day ?

does he sit in a chair and just read the paper or watch TV?

maybe hes the type where he works his 40 or 50 hour a week job nad comes home and just decides thats all the actice he needs until Monday?

Or is he inactive in the ways of bedroom antics?

is he inactive when communcating with you?

RE: Quotations or sayings that have moved you

"If I come back here and you guys are still fishing on this private dock, I'll arrest everyone of you and impound your truck"

Wayne County Sheriff

RE: So very sorry

rather not say

but close enough

RE: So very sorry

Well that explains the bathroom mirror incident

RE: So very sorry

Please describe "Ideal Click"....

If you are referring top groups (small) of sheep who are no longer seeking new friends or meeting others ( thier dance card is full).

You should consider this thought that gets me through when I get litle or no response from my posts ,threads or even my profile all of which I'm Sery proud of

the biggest mistake to make is to convince yourself just because those few within an "ideal Click" ( still curious what your thought of Ideal is) do not respond, contact or agree with your thoughts,posts makes you less than...never seek to follow or belong... I hope you did not come here for those reasons. because just like high School, begging to be liked and belonged leads to definite trouble on so many levels... DON'T DO THIS TO YOURSELF.


post what matters to you share jokes you think are humorous, give opinions that are yours. Do you want to meet people who respect and admire and accept you for your individual qualities. or simply belong to the herd?

Clicks "ideal" or "popular" collapse on themselves just look at the previous squabbles and people banned from sites like this they where all members of "clicks". The independents thinkers rarely, if ever get accused or reprimanded for pack attacks or harsh/rude, treatment of others.
Simple reason is, those that are not followers respect other individuals opinions and thoughts...OK ( most times)

Again, consider... this "Ideal Click" you strive to be accepted by has treated how many others as badly or rudely as you? Trust me you are part of the Righteous Majority they are the misinformed few.

You want some fun? Write down on a piece of paper thoise you think belong to this Ideal Click, in 2 to 6 months time watch how many disappear, are banned kicked off, leave or are sacrificed by they very group they so blindly striven to belong too... Don't be a victim of false alliances.

Trust me, watch and see them fall one at a time or in clumps.

Best of luck to you and remember I still would like to know your definition of "Ideal Click" is. I thought Arrogant clicks where as bad as it could get, now you say there are Ideal Clicks, I'm curious.Ideal Clicks????

What "special" preparations do you do

enjoy all the responses
Good night all 4am comes early.

RE: special things for first date??

Does running her name thru CDC in Atlanta and a complete credit and criminal background check count as special...or would that be just ordinary?

What "special" preparations do you do

yeppers I had to open a window after reading this

What "special" preparations do you do

thats a daily. sometimes twice daily ritual
Morning before work, then early evening before school

I go to the top shelf for my cologne... well I only have one shelf actually,

depending if she has a wild sense of humor I might wear My McDonalds boxers with the saying,

"Over a million served" printed on them.

What "special" preparations do you do

sounds like one of my average weeknights

What "special" preparations do you do

I workout to loosen up, eat a good healthy meal or two and pop all those vitamins...I'm 50 and I want her to think she got a hold of a 30 yr old.

flowers which I stash in the trunk of the car... i think its too ordinary to give them upon arrival.

What "special" preparations do you do

before a night of expected intimacy?


Besides the skyward look saying"Thank You, Thank You, Thankyou"

what season do you most think about having a LTR?

may guesstimation of a LTR should be at least 18 months

RE: Would you rather no tell someone if it's gonna hurt them?

relationships are complex enough, when you add the fact that someone who means well misinterprets or sees only 15 seconds of a of 30 minute issue.
Like wow that "pictures says a thousand words" is true we see something and what we see may no be the whole truth. Just as over hearing a conversation.

No, I seen to many do-gooders cause undo stress on relationships. example informing on a flirt...
Well, they where that way when the couple met. Yet, when the other half hears it told by someone else its so much worse then when she actually watched him in person do far worse.

No, relationships are way to complex. Those real good relationship we all see and wish we had are usually the most complex of all. For someone to intervene, heart in the right place or not, should be held accountable if they are wrong... but what just punishment can be given to someone who destroyed a relationship by simply using one to many verbs or innuendos in their description of what they heard or saw.

It's a slippery slope doing what you speak of and one I would never encourage another to traverse it. Just the wrong infliction on a phrase or use of the wrong word... yeah each case is unique.

the punishment for being wrong should be as close or worse then the pain those 2 feel for the do-gooder...but how can you exact that kind of retribution on someone who only meant well?

what season do you most think about having a LTR?

Thank you Soltare , Arabella and Witchee for acknowledging that my thought is a plausible occurrence.

to the youngsters I played that man for Christmas role it has its benefits but its enjoyed more knowing that is all it will be from the beginning.

RE: Would you rather no tell someone if it's gonna hurt them?

I find each case to be unique. Sure they are times I'll tell what know. when it comes to affairs of the heartif not asked directly, I tend to give subtle hints

the dynamics are different when a man informs and when a woman informs.
Men usually being thought to have ulterior motives. where a woman is less susceptible to this accusation. close friends I inform acquaintances i generally hint.

RE: Sad men

jealousy comes in all forms and manners especially small minded ones

RE: help.what do i do.lol

this thread has caused me to fire up a cigarette....DAMN

Ok in the beginning she basicaly told you exactly what she is doing now...Right?

Still you persued her you displayed your abilities to be a kind and understanding man who would make a 175 mile trip every weekend!

Now, what you thought might happen has... was it always in your plan to run away when this occured? ever hear of closure?

Well, now is her opportunity to have it and if she is truly your "sunshine" that you drive to see every weekend. why quit now? you want guarantees? hey this is the big league, love everafter stuff, better or worse, in for a penny in for a pound kinda stuff. Sure you cannot force her to pick you but hey you sure can make it known that this a**hole isn't the reason you'll quit.

I only read half of the first page of posted opinions... Ask yourself this very personal question.. Do you have enough feelings in your heart for this woman to endure exactly what she said in the beginning she just did not know what she would do...allow her the choice to decide.
Lord knows you have given her another option.

you where there in the beginning, knowing what may happen and now that it has you still are... this will let her know how you deal with issues you have no control over. My friend when love is involved, many circumstances will arise where neither you or her will have control over...only faith in your feelings for each other will allow you to survive... So take good measure of yourself and decide, what do you want to do...She was honest in the beginning, thats the least you can do for yourself.


but back off... hell if its real you won't be able to stay away.. if ever a person is suppose to follow their heart it times like these.

whatever you decide best of luck

what season do you most think about having a LTR?

Damn I forgot about football season... Ahh my mind wondered gota little sappy thanks MItch for bringing back to my senses.....NEVERMIND

what season do you most think about having a LTR?

I think about having a "significant other" mostly in fall and winter.

It just makes sitting under the blanket watching the snow fall or the TV seem so much more relaxing. Sharing the morning chill in the house when getting out of bed or waking up.

Sometimes I think its the best of seasons to start a new relationship,
With all the gatherings and holidays of the season that can be shared,
Sharing of the isolation and barren feeling that winter months can bring.
Then emerging as a solid couple in the spring like flowers in the new year
Standing outside together as one enjoying the heat of the spring sun.
To blush and be prideful as others observe 2 celebrating as one in the light and heat of the spring sun.

to survive the test of natures season of winter yeah I think its a great time of year to start a new relationship.

RE: Who knows?

it seems pretty obvious to me...

man drives all night ito pick someone up, then is more than belittled because of his attire.

If CS gatherings are all about "monkeysuits" and ballroom dresses I will not be attending any.

I'm extremely disappointed to here CS functions are suit and tie affairs. Wow, I thought a laundered shirt and clean fingernails and boots would get me past any doorman for a CS event.

Thank you... I learn something everyday at CS

RE: BEST ADVICE YOU EVER HEARD

a mans character is judged by his actions, deeds, and promises kept.
not by his possessions, words, attire, or promises made.

of course I was younger then and things being what they are.. maybe it should be rewritten

RE: BEST ADVICE YOU EVER HEARD

I thought is was "never trust a man who wears suspenders and a belt to hold up his trousers."

RE: Just my luck ... why are all men

I've often pondered this riddle...

why is it when picking fruit from a tree the ones that look most tasteful and the ripest and begging to be devoured are not within our reach?

is it because i only 5'10" or does this occur to the masses as well.

stillit begs to be answered WHY is this so?

RE: role play

this is a "role" that many woman without consent get stuck doing with a love interest anyway in some of their relationships.

just an idea but a different "role" might get a more positive response.

RE: Should Stephen Cobert run for President? Who would make a good VP on his ticket?

Andrew Dice Clay for Stevies VP