self Esteem of a MAN
I'm in my break time of CS but I read very strong insulting comment of one blog to the comment of my sister and I wonder... What he has that make him so snob.... I looked his back to answer my question and I see nothing in him.Well-educated? High kasta?? Royal blood?? The wisest man on earth?? When he is poor.... He could not speak too loud about all these invisible touch to others.
He could be stupid, low kasta or common person but with $10,000,000 per annual, he would have thousand people ready to serve him.
We can't judge we are better or smarter than others. Even Forest Gump was the richest man on earth with his autism.
All those invisible touch would never be able to guarantee someone would reach his highest esteem but money could buy you the highest esteem you wanted. It can change you from a slum to a king if you have unlimited sources of money. Look all those arabian sheiks. When I lived in Geneva, I remember 2 boing 747 parking in Coitrin airport every summer to bring rich families from gulf and how those boutique of Louis Vutton, Harmes, Cavallie, Celine, Versace, you named it, open their door with big smile until their forehead to welcome them. The welcome was not the same when me and colleagues came there. Why was that? The answer is simple.... MONEY
When someone talk so loud about "I" (himself), people will directly look at his back. But only 2 things that people will see, his age and his job. Or when someone bluff so much about buying return flight ticket, I directly look at his age and his job. Would be on earth someone spend thousands of dollar for a stranger?? Would you do that?? and more over that the person he bluff with is someone who do more overseas trip than himself?? I see that he is insulting himself.
You might have different opinion, for me and most of modern women, we see that the self esteem of men is indeed measured by how much he earn. Think deeper about it. When he earn $100/month, he eat what, live where, wear what. When he earn $15.000/month, he eat what, live where, wear what, drive what and where go for holiday and see how people treat him.
Unless we live in the jungle or very small village, men's esteem is measured by his bark.
Comments (17)
I wish I knew which blog you were talking about..
yes you are right. Though the action precedes the reaction and, therefore, the fist apology should come from who acts. But because I am cultured and so I apologize. I hope she will behave herself and will not make any derogatory comment on my blog. I simply meant to register a protest.
Seee.. just like what I said, always negative..
Not in my city..
okay I apologize but I am afraid it can be misinterpreted. Let it be the case. I think it is over.
though she is manipulating the facts cleverly but I would rather keep mum. I think it is over.
I have much to expose but I will not because its the breach of decorum. I think it is over.
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