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A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.

If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't Sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it's
usually something more interesting.

A woman over 40 knows herself well enough to be assured in who She is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 40
give a crap what you might think about her or what she's doing.

Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match With you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course,
If you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get
Away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They Know what it's like to be Unappreciated.

A woman over 40 has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn't trust the guy with other women.

Women over 40 couldn't care less if you're attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won't betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40. They always know.

A woman over 40 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40
is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don't ever have to wonder
where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal.

For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of 40 , there Is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some
22-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize. For all those men who say, "Why buy the Cow when you can get the milk for free", here's an update for you. Now 80% of
women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying An entire pig, just to get a little sausage

Yesterday was one of those days that I wait for all year. It was the 10th anniversary of the Special Olympics Equestrian Division of the Summer Games in Maine. I have been a judge for the riding classes for the past 6 years, along with my 16 year old neighbor that is my recorder of scores.

Just the fact that my helper was only 10 when she started and will postpone her own busy schedule to attend with me I find a miracle. She is a very special young lady.

Hundreds of hours go into make this one day happen. Athletes young and old prepare by riding all year round. The most gentle and peaceful horses carry them with grace and overlook the incorrect body movements that some of them may make. But know which cues to understand.

There is an energy that surrounds all that help with this event. And even though I think I can usually find the words to describe something......I am at a loss to truly explain this day. The coaches have patience and love beyond normal people. The athletes wear their emotions for all to see. I think this is where mankind is missing out. If they are upset it shows, if they are elated, it shows! When did I forget to be this open with the world? It is an honor just to be able to ride on their coat sleeves and visit the energy that this group displays.

This is not one of my better pieces, but with the spent feelings and slow let down from yesterday this is all I could muster.


Special Olympics



Grins and smiles
surround the sand.
Admiration from
all their fans.

Brave athletes
mount and command
Equines ten fold their size
under the grand stand.

Months of training
today to test.
Striving to be
the best.

Courage, patience
determination and skill.
Patterns to remember
and outstanding good will.

Parents, grandparents,
coaches and friends.
Cheer them on
To the end.

Just when we
think we can’t go anymore.
The day end ribbons
are about to be bestowed.

It is all worth this day
to see their faces.
Pure emotion of this kind
Doesn’t existed in many places.

This is a rather haunting piece of writing for me, so I thought I would post it here instead of on the regular forum.


Trappings concealed the
tattered spirit.
Thoughts flowing
deep and furious.

Death collected
past mistakes
Sadness swirled
within this place.

Anger lived
deep within.
Shielding years of
perceived sins.

Misgivings purge
and spill out.
Forgiveness granted
to all but myself.

Verthandi 8/12/07

Many unfiled pieces of my life seem to want to join together and depart last week. It was a wonderful feeling, but felt like a death at the same time.

I have been working on a small piece of writing to describe the feelings of the first time a rider gets on a young horse and the connection that developes between them. The piece was ready to be sent out along with a photo for publication in a local newsletter.


First Ride

Raw amber honey,
vanilla cream.
Young, taut muscle
lacking memory
to impede.

Confusion and wonder
are seen in his eyes.
Working so hard
to decide.

Each step
a journey.
Guess the answer.
Good try.

Curiosity, youth,
trust and
a kind heart.
Serve him well
on his first start.

Movements lengthen
then withdraw.
Softness invades
neck, back and jaw.

Big sighs
release in
tandem from each.
As the perfect day
is now complete.


Verthandi 7/23/07


Upon reviewing it, I think I am going to have to start over. Depending on the state of mind of the reader....this could also be talking about a young, inexperienced lover....oops.

Well I finally met him and he's perfect in every way. I love spending time with him and everything. I've only seen him 3 times but that's enough to know I really really like him. I hope he feels the same way and that we turn into something more.

You look at me with eyes of love
you never hold a grudge.....
you think i'm far too wonderful
To criticise or judge.



The one who listens when i talk,
The one who cheers my lonely walk,
The one who nuzzles when i cry,
The one who comforts when i sigh,

Who else could match my mood?
Who else would feast on scraps of food?
Who else would prompt this monologue?
Who else but you...
My loving dog.

ONLY AFTER THE LAST TREE HAS BEEN CUT DOWN,
ONLY AFTER THE LAST RIVER HAS BEEN POISONED,
ONLY AFTER THE LAST FISH HAS BEEN CAUGHT,
ONLY THEN WILL YOU FIND
THAT MONEY CANNOT BE EATEN.

( cree indian prophecy )


I wanted to share these wise words with you , you can take them or leave them.

For one thousand years and a one thousand lives,
I have searched this world far and wide,

For the other half of my soul,
The one who completely makes me whole,

For a love pure and true,
For only you,

For you are every part of me,
My heart, my soul, my destiny...........

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