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This is not fun ...

It was so distrubing when you were disturbed in the sleep at night.frustrated That night our next door neighbor whose lovely teenage girl cried sadly for a long time, and also I heard loud voice of something falled down at that monent, this was not the first time happened since they rented that apartment last summer for their daughter's study.

More worse, that over here, my dad might think it was not enough noise to be made, he wanted to add more like somewhat theatrical play and he was immersed in it for a long time as well. doh Then over there the girl cried loud, over here dad shouted loud to "let 'them' get up and cook ..." laugh Poor me was suddenly awaked by such mess symphony and couldn't help to be surrounded by it. I tried to stop dad cos he has a big voice, (most of the time I can,) but this time he seemed not listen to me. He said they were too lazy to get up and continued his waking 'them' up ... I laid in my bed helpless but only headache untill their sound faded in their weary at the end.blues

I wondered why that girl cried so aloud ? In her age she should has many happy time. Has her parents no any mercy on their only daughter crying so sad before her sleep? confused I do hope that girl can less cry, more laugh in her future life. comfort

Nice weekend to you! bouquet
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Drawing a Sun?!

Grey sky day after day, they said it looked like going to snow, snow may be fun and can colour the world , but I am afraid that I no feeling to enjoy its beauty ... moping

Though I keep my room warm like early Summer, the temperature is about 23. but the daytime looked like gloomy without sunshine. I want my air-conditioner have a rest in the Sunny afternoon, but it seems like an extravagant hope... sigh

I love to see the power of sunshine though it have to be kept out of the windows... I miss the Sunshine, where you gone? where you hidden? Somebody told me if the Sun didn't appear, then draw a large Sun on the wall in the room. But I just wonder is this kind of illusions can work? confused

Anyhow, May the sunshine smile at my Dad 's bed often. daisy

Warm regards to you all. teddybear
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Let it be...

If life is like a journey, the experience of our life already told us more. Because of the reality never fools us only we fool ourselves...doh

There are no such things in this world as love or hate without any cause or reason. If this is the best ending, why should we still care about that poor little tenderness ? ... The field of our heart needs to be cleared up and be seeded a new hope of life. So except the grateful for the past time we spent. No any regret or sorrow, but only

wine May the next journey of life go on well both of you and all the best!wine

Here is a Chinese pupular song which I liked.
(Faint Aroma by Sha Baoliang )

when the petal is departed from its flower
remaining its faint aroma
which is faded away after wind and rain
and no one wants to come and smell

if love told me to go on
I would strive to the end
if the heart died in the splendor
love would be reborn from the ashes
When the lingering whisper unforgettable
just offer sacrifice to me with your smile

let the heart died in the splendor
let the love be reborn from the ashes
yet the vestige of the green grass after burning
looking around and the spring breezes coming again


This is a new year,and a new beginning. Things will be changed ,I do hope.
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Alas...

It's a bit funny talking about Dad's biological clock. Cos he always stays in bed, he mixs up the time of the day and night. Before he is a very punctual person. yay

At daytime, whenever the light is bright,the radio is on, even the noice from outside. Nothing can be effected him, he just sleeps tight like a baby except eating and drinking time. I wonder he is following his own inner body clock when to awake up and fall asleep now sigh So when after dinner he awakes widely and activety, his mind vivid and talks more -- he wants his shoes, he wants to get up to school or to work, or wants to go back to his" own" home... At that moment, all things passed before in his life came to appear to his mind again though all were the fragment of old memories. I had to talk with him in mess. doh

Funny thing would be happened, like once I talked to him; "You looked like an emperor leaning on bed watching TV." He replied:" you are the emperor! Not me." " Why? " "because you are sitting there." Ah, yes, from the images of our emperors,they all sat straight on their chairs...laugh

When it's time to turn off the light, he didn't like the light off and said that I am too stingy to save the electricity, sounded like I was a Scrooge. uh oh I had to say the electricity is cut off... but he didn't aware of the air conditioner was still at work.

One thing I had to admit that I made white lies to him someetimes to calm down his emotions. My mom passed for over 3 years which dad forgot maybe, she was the only woman my Dad often mentioned and looked for. In his deep mind, he still missed her I knew. heart beating Alas. I didn't know how to answer him when he mentioned her, I tried to avoid the word 'dead' , So a white lie is needed for both of us at the present time...



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A short story about Dad

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This stuffed toy of grey mouse was bought by my sister when she was abroad. Recently she came back with her husband and gave the cartoon toy to Dad, said maybe Dad like it, she thought Dad was a kid? laugh

Now let's see what happened then ...confused


At first, Dad saw it with a bit curious, then asked "what is this?"
"It's a cartoon toy, a mouse. Is it cute?" WIth mo answer, Dad watched it again seemed no interested in it. but we thought the mouse looked lovely. Its size is good for hold by hand. I put it on Dad 's bed. After seconds, he picked it up, and threw away on the floor beyond my expectation. I picked up again and threw it back to him.the poor mouse was fallen down on floor again and again and ...rolling on the floor laughing

I laughed loud, Dad got a bit annoyed, but not really mean it. He just didn't like the grey mouse on his bed, and I wanted him doing some exercise, so we repeated this Toss games till he felt tired ...

Watching on this, my sister said; "Now I know why Dad neve bought dolls for me when I was a kid. coz he didn't like them at all!"sigh She felt sorry that Dad only bought wind-up toys for her. Also felt sad that 10 years later, when all her toys ( still in good condition ) transfered to me, all were broken down by me. My naive and curious ruined them, I thought I could restore them again, but the restoration never happend, and end up of a pile of messy parts there and sister 's grumble ... doh

In my old memory, once Dad bought an air balloon for me along the street. I wanted to take it back home to play, but unfortunately the balloon was blown away from my small hand over a bridge when we walked home. The balloon belonged to me just 5 mins.crying As Dad refused to buy a new one, my dream of playing was gone. Gone With The Wind !! sad flower

Now the grey mouse was accompanyed by Miss hedgehog.They are together sitting there, Hope he is not boring at my home ...
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By the way, would anyone know the name of the grey mouse? Thanks! wine
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Attend to one thing and lost another

A boring Saterday morning today, but the weather was fine, sunny and warm. My turtle came out again for her food. She hidden somewhere for couple of days ago. I know that she is ready for her long winter sleeping.professor

She is an intersting creature, has lived with me for 5 years since very small. She takes off her old shells twice a year. Sometimes I help her doing that complete. She likes clean her eyes with her front feet when in water,or lies motionless under the sunshine for a long time in Summer, a very sensitive with the temperature. she likes under the Sunshine, So today I put her on the arm of chair's after eating and am waiting there to see what will happen...wink

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While I photoed her diving show, the crabs was cooking on the stove which I nearly forgotten. When I rushed to there it almost burnt. Well,just a little, but the juice had been dried away. crying

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Wish tomorrow is a little difference from today.
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It Cost Me 1 Yuan

I have this bamboo deck chair for more than 4 years, and the bamboo belt had been replaced the second time. It kept me in cool and comfortable while I leaned on it for afternoon nap in Summer. Actually, in the most time of year it was used. Further more,it is not taken up space when folded it. cheering

But yesterday, one side of its joint had broken ,crying as the bamboo belt is still new replace,I didn't want to give it up. Instead, so I tried to fix it by myself .help

I took out dad 's tool box, picked up something I need; pliers, a piece of proper iron sheet( I found a copper one), handy drill, steel file, screw bolt, ( short one and long one),screw driver, monkey wrench( strange name, why using "monkey" here ? laugh ). But I couldn't find a suitable long screw bolt. At last,I had to bought it from a hardware store. applause

It only cost me 1 yuan for had the chair repaired ... and more important, now I can go on my daily nap on this chair again, just wish it can available for another 2 years.

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My poor old chair looks stable now. laugh



teddybear Happy weekend to you all!teddybear
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Wait In a Line?!

Today, I was shopping at a supermarket. At the weighing place, the scale didn't work well, so lots of people had to wait there, I was the first in the queue,but there was another person by my side and the others started queuing behind that person instead of behind me and it seemed that I was the one skipping the queue.blues

After a while, I heard an unhurried voice speaking beside me ;" Wait in a line", an old local lady spoke in English! I was not sure if she was talking to me because she was watching ahead while saying. she repeated this sentence for several times like a parrot nagging... I wanted to see what else she could say in English, so we had the following conversation both in Chinese; conversing

I said with a little ironic:" Your English is good , but pity we don't understand what's the meaning. "
She said:" Young person don't understand English?"
" No. Seems you chose the wrong audience," She didn't angry with me.
"OK,then I speak in Shanghainese." she said,
" We don't understand Shanghainese either. Better you speak Russian." I reply to her. tongue She was still not angry .This short of talking was quickly ended along with her left. wave

Sometimes a misunderstanding leads to a misreading. I didn't want to disrespect her if she spoke in our local language at first and I'd like to explain to her ...

This is one scene in life, nothing special just feel fun though. cheers

Nice Sunday to you all!teddybear


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A scenery at Huangpu river, Shanghai.
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It nearly confused me...

One day, my bicycle had some trouble at an university campus. I was told there was a bicycle repair man who was located near the student's dormitories.So I went there but couldn't find. I had to ask a student nearby. help

He thought a while and then replied; "go ahead along this path, then turn right, you will find it exactly on a diagonal of that building." I amazed at his precise answer, but I totally lost in his last sentence as well. confused

Wondered which of the building? which of the diagonal?? Shy to ask him again, I had to pretend to understand and gave him an expression of praise,then said;" Did your TJ (university)students answer questions in this way?" without noticed his reaction and said thanks, I went away,but followed his clue, went ahead and turned right, without any diagonal,that place was already in front of me... wow

He was good to explains in details, but I was nearly lost in it for my simple mind... Poor me , and lucky him who is studying at that university which is famous in its architecture design field.:laugh

In real life, just keep things easy like this unknown cat would be better I think.
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Nice Sunday to you all!teddybear
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The Flood Upstairs vs Rain Outside

This early morning when I was been in hospital ,there was a large flood on the six floor made the floor looked like a mirror. Water flowed everywhere even in the wards and doctor 's office.I saw the woman doctor sitting on the bed like a fool in her office. laugh

The water was also flowed down stairs to the next floor. A water tube was broken cause of that. Then people had to deal with the inner flood for next 3 hours... All staffs felt exhausted except the doctor ... What a day!frustrated



In the late afternoon, on the way home, a heavy rain finally came with lightning and thunder.Thankful this first, heavy rain of this summer, made the heat air cool down, I like summer raining, but always scared of the lightning especially when walking in the street... now at this moment feel safe at home.laugh

Best wishes to you all! wine wave

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see, how they delt with the flood ...
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In My Idle Hours

Near our East Ocean,there is a Dishi Lake, ( also called waterdrop lake) an artifical one which is located at the center of Lin'gang New City, Pudong . I'v never been there though passed by it many times when went to the hospital to see Dad ... That day before Dad out of the hospital,I spent about 2 hours strolling there to relieve my mental stress which came from Dad. the weather was not good for photo, but I did take some, here picked up a few of them to share ...

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Beautiful place

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A long corridor by the lake

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Do you think trees can dance Walz?

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A quiet path

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Where's my partner gone?

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Don't...I feel a little shy though

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Wow, it's so nice!

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Four wheels bike to make you more fun

I am still busy these days. Good day to you all!wine wave
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A typical day of mine

wave Dad is still in hospital and I am busy to send his food every day. His chronic bronchitis temporary seems under control again but still use nasal feeding ( he can't eat by mouth). A nursing assistant in hospital help me to take care of Dad most of the time, so I am in charge of Dad's daily meals, and have a chance to adjust my status as well. I was really tired.

Here’s my daily schedule:

-- Get up at about 06;00, then go to hospital for Dad’s first meal of his day.(goat's milk + bee milk) then eat my breakfast there,shaving for him, waiting for the ward round time ...
-- At about 09;30 the second meal ( yoghourt ).then I leave for shopping or washing or cooking ...
-- After my lunch, at about 12;30 go to hospital again for Dad’s third meal. (nutritional rice milk I made). Then back home having a small nap...
-- At about 15;30. Go there again for his fourth meal (cow’s milk+ banana) and clean his mouth cavity if necessary...
-- At about 18;30 , send him the fifth meal same like the third one...

All his 5 meals I feed him by myself, the hospital has special food offered. But I don't like eat the same stuff all the time which packaged in a bottle already . sigh

Fortunately.An acquaintance of my family sent his unused,eighty percent new bicycle to me and I sent my old one to a bike repaired person. Now with it I like a bee “flying” quickly from home to hospital and shopping as well. Oh, by the way , it is a quality brand named "phoenix" which was made in Shanghai. Blue colour, my favorite. applause

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Ok, time to go ,wish you all well! wine wave
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