A typical day of mine

wave Dad is still in hospital and I am busy to send his food every day. His chronic bronchitis temporary seems under control again but still use nasal feeding ( he can't eat by mouth). A nursing assistant in hospital help me to take care of Dad most of the time, so I am in charge of Dad's daily meals, and have a chance to adjust my status as well. I was really tired.

Here’s my daily schedule:

-- Get up at about 06;00, then go to hospital for Dad’s first meal of his day.(goat's milk + bee milk) then eat my breakfast there,shaving for him, waiting for the ward round time ...
-- At about 09;30 the second meal ( yoghourt ).then I leave for shopping or washing or cooking ...
-- After my lunch, at about 12;30 go to hospital again for Dad’s third meal. (nutritional rice milk I made). Then back home having a small nap...
-- At about 15;30. Go there again for his fourth meal (cow’s milk+ banana) and clean his mouth cavity if necessary...
-- At about 18;30 , send him the fifth meal same like the third one...

All his 5 meals I feed him by myself, the hospital has special food offered. But I don't like eat the same stuff all the time which packaged in a bottle already . sigh

Fortunately.An acquaintance of my family sent his unused,eighty percent new bicycle to me and I sent my old one to a bike repaired person. Now with it I like a bee “flying” quickly from home to hospital and shopping as well. Oh, by the way , it is a quality brand named "phoenix" which was made in Shanghai. Blue colour, my favorite. applause

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Ok, time to go ,wish you all well! wine wave
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gnite cheers sad flower
I'm sending beautiful thoughts to you, and take care of yourself!applause
Phoenix, keep it up girl !!! You are a diamond for your dad as he is a hero for you. There will be no medal for what you have been doing to him as there was no medal for what he has done to you since you born till you are like you are now.... I will pray that your dad will be getting well soon.
Hi , jarred;

Same here.beer sad flower
Hi,Val53:

Thank you so much for your support! I Just back from hospital for a while, it's amazing Dad can speak out his own name and my name ... I am so happy for him.

Have a great day there!hug wave
glad to hear there is some improvement on your father health. Hoping he will get better from day to day. A little but significant, to you, your father and rest of your family.
Take care and be happy always..hug angel
Phoenix, sometimes we just need a little faith, love and understanding and don't forget about the positivity, I hope your weekend will be a good one for your dad as well!dancing dog
Hello Pheonix, wave My Thoughts and Prayers are with you. It is very admirable what you re doing. I cared for my late Mother for 2 yrs , after she was diagnosed with cancer. That was the toughest thing I ever had to do, it took its toll on me. You have my admiration Phoenix , hope things work out for you.hug hug
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spring
phoenixFH,Wish you father recover soon!I know you are very tired every day, give you a hug here, hope to be able to let you no longer tired!

My father passed away 21 years ago, he was very dote on me, I also very love him!I often miss him now!So, you want to cherish together spend happy time with your dad!
On a comment I is written in Chinese, but sent out into a pile of symbols, sorry!
You're doing a fine thing. I admire you. Be sure, also, to take good care of the care giver - you. rose

Enjoy that bicycle! .......................super
I think you are a very good person, my friend, and I think you take very good of your father, but as others also say, remember to take good care of you too, because it is needed. Have a peaceful weekend.teddybear hug
There are people in this life that deserves medals as big as a dustbin lid.. and you are one of them Phoenix. Good on you looking after your dad like that your an angel You will reap the reward of knowing you loved and cared for him always. Hope he recovers soon so you can have him back home with you.
Godbess you lovely lady for your love and example to us.hug bouquet teddybear
Hi Phoenix
I'm glad he seems better now. It is wonderful to be able to do something for your parents when they get older. Payback time we call it here.
hug wave
@ Mei;
Thanks for your concern on my dad and me! very appreciated !
And a happy weekend to you , my friend. wine

@ Val53;
Yes, I will do as you said. Thanks again. wine
@ 1to1to1;
Thanks so much! I can imagining your giving for your late Mother... Take care of a sick person is not an easy job.I know.

Blessing you. my friend .wine

@ spring:
Hello, My compatriot!hug Nice to meet you here.

Your hug let me feel better now. Thanks!

Sorry to hear about your Dad.but good memories will be still alive.

BTW, I did the same thing like you before...laugh and now this should be worked.

Zhu ni you mei'hao de yi'tian!wine
@ miclee;
Thanks! I am just a normal person who doing normal things as others.and yes, I enjoy my bike more ,it's my wings when I am riding on it.wine

@welela;
Thanks for your kind words! Yes for sure, now my health is connected with my dad's health,we need support each other,so I will take care of myself better.wine
@ Wallops;
Thanks for your inspiring words! My sister.

Best wishes to you! wine

@ Cat;
Yes, indeed, It's a payback time and I am pleasant to do that. wine
phoenix
You sound very busy...what a nice daughter you are...you are a very good person...nice that have some form of transportation...wine
hi, loulou;

Thanks! I wish I can do anything for him ... hug
Hi phoenix, wave it is good to be able to do something for your father. Best wishes to both of you. bouquet
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