Kasih
Kasih
Jakarta, Indonesia
Nov 2009
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Friend or lover......

i have a question in my head....
can friends ever be lovers ? and can lovers ever be friends ?
i mean if the relationship breaks down how do you maintain the friendship?
is it normal to be scared of moving in to a higher level of relationship because we are actually scared of loosing a friend?
dunno
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Timosity
Timosity●Cedar Rapids, Iowa USA
Nov 28, 2009●22 Blogs●20 Comments
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It is quite normal to fear losing a friend if one enters into a "higher level relationship" yet is it worth the risk to you? If your lover is not first and foremost your friend, then what will you have but an empty relationship?! True friendship is the only thing to build love upon for it provides the foundation that promotes long lasting relationships. Lovers must be and remain friends if the love that they seek is to continue to grow and strengthen! Doc professor
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jayjaywaiting
jayjaywaiting●dublin, Dublin Ireland
Nov 28, 2009●13 Blogs●27 Comments
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Myself I believe friends can become lovers and lovers can become friends...

for two people to be lovers they also need to be friends...

I broke up with my partner 2 years ago and we are still friends..
as you can see it is possible for two people who break up to remain as friends .... and dont be scared of moving from being friends ot being lover friends, if it is meant to be then it will be ...


The only thing that would stop friendship is if one does something unforgiveable.

JayJay
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longhairedwoman
longhairedwoman●Riverhead, New York USA
Nov 28, 2009●8 Blogs●28 Comments
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No, I think they are 2 different things. With the exception of my ex-husband who I have children with, I don't remain in contact with any of my former lovers.

Oh, and I don't sleep with my friends either.
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moonlove
moonlove●chiang mai, Northern Thailand Thailand
Nov 29, 2009●140 Blogs●778 Comments
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I dont know but friends became is lover is cool....bouquet bouquet bouquet
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UNLEASED77
UNLEASED77●GUILDFORD, Surrey, England UK
Nov 29, 2009●11 Blogs●25 Comments
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hello there yes i think friend that can hang in there to become lover can realy make it work as in the start you are a friend and it becomes a partner all you do is step back and think take a day at a time build on your relastionship and be comited to you lover so you shear your feelings and become one... as they say in life be there for one another through the good and the bad and stick to it because we have to make the most of what we have got in life and that is someone you love truly , madly deeply and be with the rest of your lifes ..............teddybear
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Emilyan
Emilyan●Hulunbuir Big Stock Farm, Guangdong China
Nov 29, 2009●9 Blogs●165 Comments
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actually I've been having this kind of question in my mind too. from being friends to be lovers is easy and natural, but if you make it go back, it seems difficult and harsh.. I think this is just because they don't want to hurt each other anymore? but with the time passing by, then it will be possible and easy to be friends again.. it's somewhat like a.... umm... merry-go-round? ha wine
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