Avoid me, or let's be friends !!!

Hello, my name is ....... I won't actually give you my name. But I will tell you that I was the only child in my family. And since that wasn't enough, life decided for my mother to raise me alone. And so begins the story of my life and that of my mother, from whom I hope that those of you who read it will learn something ....
Ever since I was little, the children around me either avoided me or if they played with me they were somehow more withdrawn and avoided looking at me directly. Things didn't change even in adolescence, no matter how much I tried to be a friendly, open-minded and cheerful person. Sometimes I wonder if children do this because of education, or the entourage ... but whatever it is they do not realize is that it hurts even more .... Somehow in the subconscious of any child in the same situation with me, so involuntarily will be the next thought "what do I have ?! what I did wrong, my father did not want me, children my age, they do not want me ... what did I do wrong ?!" Maybe things would be more ample if those around me would treat me like one of theirs .... like any other child with a normal family ... That's why I tell you, don't make the same mistake, if you meet people / children like me. They will be more affected than you might think. And now let me move on to my mother's story, Ever since I was little, and my father left us, my mother's so-called friends, they treated her with a certain distance, coldness in their souls ... as if they were afraid not somehow, my mother tries to steal their boyfriend / husband ... that's why I would like, in this way to tell you dear women, don't be naive (not to say otherwise so that no one feels offended) First of all, if my mother needed a man in her life she could have found one free, there was no need to turn to another man ... Secondly it is a mistake to think that if you keep a single woman at a distance, she will not she could still steal your husband. Wondering why I say that ?! Let's think about login for a moment ... If you keep her at a distance, you won't see what she has in mind, what kind of person she is and what her intentions are, while you could keep her close as a friend, and if she is a good person, she will no longer have the desire to steal your husband, and if she is not a good person, maybe you will realize what her intentions are.
So as the title says ... what do you think is better for all of us in situations like this ?!
Avoid me or be friends ???!
Thank you for your time, and let's be better for a better world, not necessarily for us, but for those who come after us.
Made up story by Anyo
inspired by real events