Trust

posted this earlier, same answer, its late so here goes.


people will always let you down, in real life, we've all had friends that disappointed us, or borrowed money, and forgot to give it back, but life goes on, you make new, sometimes better friends, the internet is no different, we have to trust, we have to love, because we are human, its what we do, its what makes us unique, common sense, and a little street-wise, skill, will protect you to a point, but you have to reach out, you have to trust, if you want to live, some will let you down, some will be friends for life, its called living, its risky, but it sure beats sitting in the back of a wardrobe, just to feel safe.

SO RIGHT AGREE 100 PERCENT WE NEED TO GET OUT THERE AND TAKE A FEW RISKS AND BE STREETWISE.WE ALWAYS LEARN SOMETHING GOOD AND BAD ABOUT HUMAN NATURE ON THE WAY.

Hmmmm. Trust that is a tricky one, and how one measures it is even trickier. Here is how I see it use cation, follow you your heart, but temper it with your mind. In doing this you will know when you have crossed that line into a meaningful friendship/romance. Take your time what is menat to be will be.

I am not saying it is easy by any means. I can understand where one would want to block all contact invovling pritive life. To this i have only one question. If you live in fear are you truely living? Risk is a part of life, learn from the past and look to the future, live in the present. =)

nobody can trust somebody wholly and completely. even the close friends, or even your partner, you just can not trust them wholly, or else, the one who is hurt is always you. it is a bit miserable, but it is real.

but there are always some people who you can trust completely. they are your father, mother, brothers and sisters.

hi jan
u r still very young,u gonna find very soon and in the worst of the ways that the only people u can never trust ,really never ,r ur relatives and especially the closest ones.then u;ll remember that poor alfi told u that b4 some years,

Hello my dear friend Amity

Its something hard or easy thing if we talk about trust. You won't easy to trust someone until you know the person very well.
But sometimes the trust that you already gave can be betraying you, then you loose the trust.

But life always about something to give a chance, chance to open with other people, and yes, that will be a risk, but you'll never know it could be the good thing for you.

I just believe that something good then good too us & the oppsite too back thing will return bad too.

Keep always spirit of life my friend.

Trust,, hmm really difficult to trust anybody nowdays especially people we never met just being a logic person

use your head to decide that is he/she are a sincere people don't follow your heart it's failed me sometimes

If the person have let you down for couple of days just block the contact from you

hi alfi. I really think that, in this world, the people who will never hurt me are my father, mother and my sisters. sometimes our thinkings may be different, but indeed, they are just hoping that i am good, just as if i am hoping that they are good.

and i am sure your parents must hope you are good, and you must hope your children are good.

sorry jan,i have two daughters i love them a lot ,but i know that if their interests have to put me aside or even see me as an enemy,they will do so ,no quastion ab that.dont ask me what i'll do.i really dont know.

Amity...free hug...

Alfi,ET is geting to you,you need a free hug...

alf. sorry to hear that. but i will never see my dad as an enemy. perhaps we have different interests and views due to many reasons, but we can communicate, we can talk, we can discuss, we can always find ways to solve the problems. actually most of the time, he allows me to decide, he trusts me and i trust him. and i always care and respect him.

I think that to be on guard is always important, either on the internet or in real life. My experience is that there are far too many broken people out there, and one should take time to get to know them and eventually build trust.

Keeping an open mind is difficult, but necessary, IMO

Hi A. i think it depends on a lot of things like for example how easy it is to meet up for a cup of coffee and a chat. How much information you share is up to you but a lot of our information is already out there in cyber world so be extra careful.

Thank you all for your wise words..

Don't normally go into the blogs as they are normally to long...but saw yours on my home page so I looked....



And I will simply say you will know who is real ,trust worthy and who is not....I don't know how but you will..

Thanks Dav...its an odd affair, i never believed i would ever fall for something so obvious but i believe i have been well and truly played.

Proceed with caution.
But, proceed.
NEVER send money or anything else of financial
value to someone you haven't
actually been involved with in person.
Talk on the phone first and several times prior
to meeting and then meet. Not a date, but a meeting in
public. This will help you decide whether an actual
date is appropriate.
You are a special woman who deserves terrific treatment.

i think most of us can use good judgment- the problem is an online relationship can only be like a pen pal and they very rarely go anywhere