if a man visits a woman
in another country, does it means that the woman owes that man the trip he pays to visits her? Just because he visited her?and if things sadly didnt work out the way its expected too, would that man have the right to blame it on the woman?
Is the woman are put in such a low and degrading level and have no option to say no and no right to determine whether its him or not that she wanted just because he visits her?
I mean, seriously this is an international site, a trip must be made sometimes, at the agreement of both parties, but on the above case does it mean that its final and the woman should say yes to who ever he is?
I dont think so, regardless what ever reason the woman might have, i mean, she must have the INVINITIVE reason for her decission , would she?
Should the woman be blamed if she says no? Does she actually owes him a favour yet she receives nothing and ask for no benefits from that man as in lets say cash and gifts.
What do you guys think?
Please give me answers for this matters regardless the races and origins cause its driving me crazy.
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If a guy visits from another country, I think the woman owes him something but I dont think its a return visit.
It's gambling. Either you win, either you lose.
Every one should know that..
Everyone of us, is responsible , for our own actions.
We must be prepared to pay the "bill", if something goes wrong.
Unfortunately, like it or not, that's life.
So don't feel guilty because it didn't worked out, and of course you are not obligated to pay his plane ticket, just because he visited you.
And additionaly , close your ears, to his "complaints".
You are right, and he is wrong.
conclusion:
"If you can't stand the heat, stay away from the kitchen!!!"
ps.
I think I know to what, you are refering to...
Again Kasih you are a very intelligent woman who should be writing books on social practices in the 21th century.
I sincerely hope my answer will assist in a prompt reduction of the craziness going on inside your head.
Best Wishes
Hankharlow
You know, someone commented recently in another blog that these things (blogs) shouldn't be taken too seriously. Oh, that person was you Mr Poor. I think you should take notice of some of your own advice !
What planet is she on!
Cheers to dating equality, like that will ever happen! LOL!
If a man travels far away to another country, he sacrifice time, money and he must be tired, please treat him well as he is your guess, surely both of you have agreed that he will visit you.
If he asks you to pay visit in return to his country then you don't need to go if you don't want to.
If he gives you money for the ticket you should refuse it don't take it if you don't want to go.
He must work hard to pay his own ticket and to give you money for the ticket.
It is better to send him back his money sure that you don't need that money as you can earn money more than that.
But some how her english was so poor, he didnt get the message.
I bet everybody in cs knows that the woman have a terrible english.
But then because the man did come then she tought she have to be nice. And involved her friend to make friends with him. But even her friend agreed the reason she did all of this!
If the man is behaving badly then I do not see any obligation re the above.