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hi you already know i haven't found my one true love but i was just wondering what's it like to be a parent i really would love to know thanks johntheraven1
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bunnymen
bunnymen●bedford, Bedfordshire, England UK
Oct 16, 2010●3 Blogs●42 Comments
#1
It the best thing that ever happened to me. Total and unconditional love that for me cannot be matched.
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
#2
sounds so great my friend
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bunnymen
bunnymen●bedford, Bedfordshire, England UK
Oct 16, 2010●3 Blogs●42 Comments
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It is John, it changes you as a person and does so many other things. It puts things into perspective, changes your outlook, what you used to consider important no longer matters etc. I could go on and on so i best stop now, lets just say becoming a parent is a wonderful thing.
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
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i believe you i can't wait
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Nymphe
Nymphe●Athens, Attica Greece
Oct 16, 2010●17 Blogs●171 Comments
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Well John... I'll tell you my point of view: Fear, an overwhelming sence of responsibility, absolute lack of freedom (at least of what you used to call freedom), no sleep, no resting time, no "me" anymore, just "us"!
Your life changes totally! And then, slowly, you discover joys you never knew existed!
Christmas, holidays, weekends, it all gets a brighter, beautiful meaning!
And their laughter! Oh my God, their laughter! It means the world to me... My kids are my strength, my courage, my sunshine... And even though I know I am and I'll continue to be sacrificing everything that used to be "fun" for me before they came along (as well as most of what makes one "respectable" in our shallow world, like career etc), I do it gladly! Because nothing can compare to a hug from their little arms!wave
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
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i read this comment a few this i loved what you you said i really really can't wait i love children i have nieces and nephews thanks nymph my friend
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hugh1
hugh1●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania
Oct 16, 2010●434 Comments
#7
Well..Nymphy..touche dear!
They are... a gift..and..you want more and more...hug
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
#8
and more and more and more and more and more
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Davinadia
Davinadia●Jakarta, Indonesia
Oct 16, 2010●16 Blogs●201 Comments
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being as parents the same as being a hero, how we make the children grow up, we take care of our children with our gentle touch, i love children so much wave
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
#10
can't wait to have two kids
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
#11
man if you put it that way i still love it
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hugh1
hugh1●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania
Oct 16, 2010●434 Comments
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hey Junior...the bad..suff are easy to forget...to handle them...if you know how to see!dancing
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Davinadia
Davinadia●Jakarta, Indonesia
Oct 16, 2010●16 Blogs●201 Comments
#13
taking care of an innocent creature sent from God and sleeping hours are not big issue
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
#14
i think ill love every second
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Nymphe
Nymphe●Athens, Attica Greece
Oct 16, 2010●17 Blogs●171 Comments
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...which is the sadest thing for me... Ppl who THINK they want kids, HAVE kids and then, just want out!
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
#16
true my friend
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hugh1
hugh1●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania
Oct 16, 2010●434 Comments
#17
lol! nymphy ..but so true!
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10kOhms
10kOhms●sliema, Majjistral Malta
Oct 16, 2010●1,826 Comments
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the way I see it is that people tend to get caught in what I call the 'new-euphoria' (meaning: enthusiasm in experiencing something new) that they tend to become optimistic to the extremity of oblivion towards reality!
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
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reality is what you make it
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10kOhms
10kOhms●sliema, Majjistral Malta
Oct 16, 2010●1,826 Comments
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i don't mean that being a parant doesn't have its pros too ... I mean would be nice to have a son and teach him math you self and football and fisihing and messing around in the car engine together and all this cute stuff .... (oh .. he HAS to have a flair for engineering else I'll reject him .. lOL ... kidding) but its best to be aware of the cons and pros before embarking on such a feat!


as nyph said above ... once in, u can't bail out ..!!
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hugh1
hugh1●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania
Oct 16, 2010●434 Comments
#21
Paul.."get ouf of my bed!" rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing professor
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
#22
who is paul and can i joinrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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hugh1
hugh1●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania
Oct 16, 2010●434 Comments
#23
typo"Paul...please , get out of my bed" mumbling
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10kOhms
10kOhms●sliema, Majjistral Malta
Oct 16, 2010●1,826 Comments
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there we clash brother .... there is only one reality ... whether u like it or not, its there and it cannot be changed .... all u can change is your perspective. In other words, give that u don't like reality the way it is, u can either accept it and try to live with it (that's a dishonorable defeat but it feels 'happier' sometimes) or else work hard to try to get through it (i.e. solve the problem, in which case u risk despair and it could still result in defeat but at least its not as dishonorable as the first option.)


over to u john ...
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Onofeathers47
Onofeathers47●Dhaka, Bangladesh
Oct 16, 2010●7 Blogs●56 Comments
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Wanna be a dad John hmm? Well I'm sure u'de be a wonderful dad who sings his own songs to his kids. But don't rush to go there yet cuz once ur a parent there's no coming back...
I think i scared myself. -_-
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
#26
ill go with you on that maybe its just a dream make your own reality but all we can do is the best we can
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10kOhms
10kOhms●sliema, Majjistral Malta
Oct 16, 2010●1,826 Comments
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@hugh


please don't send me away ... was the happiest man on earth in there


blues
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
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onofeathers47 your right im scared to
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Onofeathers47
Onofeathers47●Dhaka, Bangladesh
Oct 16, 2010●7 Blogs●56 Comments
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@10k" was that to ur parents or to us?? If that was towards us then... "Sorry kids should stay in their own room or else they never grows up. Night honey :)"
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hugh1
hugh1●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania
Oct 16, 2010●434 Comments
#30
good question John! htf is Paul! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

guys...need to leave you, my time for beauty sleep! grin
Paul...no comment! your choose...your desperation...your life, enjoy it whatever you could! wine
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
#31
night hughfrustrated
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Onofeathers47
Onofeathers47●Dhaka, Bangladesh
Oct 16, 2010●7 Blogs●56 Comments
#32
boys who hits their head on the wall don't get hugs... now who is standing by the wall??
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10kOhms
10kOhms●sliema, Majjistral Malta
Oct 16, 2010●1,826 Comments
#33
good nap hugh .... I'll do my best to enjoy what remains of me life ... I'll start with a good cigar and a pitcher of beer ....


@Onofeathers

well ... that was directed to hugh. ummm ... donno, one could try giving the kid some whisky before gettin him/her to bed so that they don't bug u when u're tryong to sleep ... what do u think? loll ...
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
#34
i like hugs pleaseteddybear teddybear
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Onofeathers47
Onofeathers47●Dhaka, Bangladesh
Oct 16, 2010●7 Blogs●56 Comments
#35
0_0...? ok that's it 10 ur grounded for a month!!
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hugh1
hugh1●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania
Oct 16, 2010●434 Comments
#36
hug hug hug enjoy them john! yay
I'm glad..you'll be fine, junior! cheers
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Onofeathers47
Onofeathers47●Dhaka, Bangladesh
Oct 16, 2010●7 Blogs●56 Comments
#37
hey john...? how did we manage to get a kid who's older then me?...
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johntheraven1
johntheraven1OP●oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Oct 16, 2010●88 Blogs●687 Comments
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onofeathers47 where is my hug
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Onofeathers47
Onofeathers47●Dhaka, Bangladesh
Oct 16, 2010●7 Blogs●56 Comments
#39
hug there ya go...angel
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10kOhms
10kOhms●sliema, Majjistral Malta
Oct 16, 2010●1,826 Comments
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@john


am I supposed to hug u too?


barf
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