Are we really so serious?!
Hi GuysI have not posted any blogs lately and now I'm coming back with a new dilemma
So far I have checked many profiles of men who claim that they look for a longterm relationship or serious commitment.
From other side as soon as I start talking to any of these guys or ex-change e-mails the same "serious" men loose interest or they don't bother to reply.
It seems that they don't want to put any efforts to continue with our correspondence or maybe in the meantime they find someone else instead which is probably more interesting.
My question is Is it popular or what to write in your profile that you are serious when there is no serious intention at all.
Is it for the game? Is it to have a little fun?
Are there any decent men left?
Please feel free to share your thoughts with me!
Comments (41)
I think that you have a similar blog to mine.
You're absolutely right. You know that men love with their eyes while women with their ears.
told us the %-numbers.
I guess its more men than women here.
Hay can' this "tendency" also reflect that a man dont wanna go for sth he can' stand for, meaing he is responsible rather than the different.
Or sth.
Think about it. Who fly 100000 miles for a fling?
I'd say ppl at cs pr def is more seriouse than local sites.
There must be more to this picture than meets the eye.
I dont think it has anything to do with being wired differently I have encountered as many women who are the same "serious" type.
Unfortunately, absolutely true statement about men.
Maybe you're right that more available you seem to be for them less time they spend with you. As we all know men are hunters, so they wouldn't be happy If you are an easy catch for them.
haha that quote is very true!
Then whey they waste their and mine time as well in pointless chats or stupid e-mails. I wish they were sincere from the very beginning.
That expression is stoneage to me. lol
If this would help us to protect one other in order to get less troubles and more meaningful time on dating websites.
i send you 2 letters and i got one from you
Thank for the song.It's one of my favourite.
I haven't dated anyone for a year.
I haven't lost my faith in love yet.
Sun, watch the whole video too, its like a little story.
Nice to see ur face again in ur red sweater. Ur trademark.
Jana, those are a minorety i believe.
Are you claiming those are representing the explenation to why
Sunrise can't get nowhere?
Yeah there are those out there who don't mind waisting a lot of yours and their own time because they have decided that you're "the one" that they want to play games with......unbelievable, but true
"End of story."
Listen, im not on a mission to fight u3, but to help the ones that is close to success get the final pieces put together to open up to a world that is better than the one thay have been living in resantly.
By you're chategorical statements (that ofc to SOME limited extend serve as support to each other) u may undermine the way to understanding and thereby abilety to get things better in the future.
-the players
-and the rest
If its 50/50 or 40/60 or whateva i dint have a clue.
but try not mix them up.
Thay have two diff mindsets.
(I have no clue, just play along with me)
Belle. If you seriously after all these months are reffering to me as "that guy".. that say something about you as a person, as of today. I mean today. But im the optimistic type so that can change to the better overnight.
Remb also who's blog this is, so im talking to the world as i dabete with you. Guess i SHOULD had become a politician or lawier.
But im just a simple worker at the groundfoor
But im fine with that. Wanna sit on my lap Belle? Would be better than ha'.
@Sunrise - Hi
Okay - Just like when singles meet at a bar/pub ... often they chat for a while ... then may go talk to other people for a bit ... then might chat again. Most folks can only do casual relationships when they are not physically together. "Feelings" develop better in person and many just follow their feelings (intuition).
Starting a relationship from a distance isn't easy because it takes two people who have the skills to connect with each other beyond pictures and saying nice things. I think that people who can do this are in the minority.
It can still happen, of course. The question is how many people you'll need to talk with until one sticks with the conversation (and growing relationship).
Also - Do you wait to hear from them before sending your next message? I think the one to one message pattern will eventually fail... you have to be willing to at least send a note to wish them a good day from time to time... if they still don't come back, they actually aren't interested.
Oh... need emoticons before Morgen reminds me
Funny u should menti a party setting InThe, cos this is abit like that. U know we mingle abit.
Then later in the night we hope to get closer to one we have eyed out for a dance or a longer talk in the soffa. Then u may go out at the kitchen to bring her another drink as the gent u hopfully are, and pray she is still sitting alone in the sofa when u return. Hehe
Etc.
I understand though. I do hear men ranting about how bad women are and I'm like well I'm here and I know sometimes we can't see our faults but I think I'm a good woman. But sometimes what is nice and good to one person is not exactly my definition of good. And again not looking for perfection either!
See u and peace throughout the entire cs nation!
It's not like I want to go out and marry the next guy I have some attraction for! It's not like I'm in a desperate rush either! I'd be scared too. I'd be thinking is this the guy I want to spend forever with? Wouldn't want to make a mistake on something so important either. So yes I'm romantic but practical too.