Does a visible scar give the person bad image?
This summer I,ve had an accident.When I was on Seaside I've hit the glass of the restaurant accidently when I turned suddenly not realasing the doors glass.I ve rushed to hospital an had twice surgery on my wrist.Now I have very visible scar on my right wrist.I think it's not that bad and it doesn't really bother me.But it bothers my mum.She doesn't like it and wants me to have a cosmetic surgery to lift up the scar.She say it can give a bad image to the people about you.Luckily the scar doesn't look like a deliberetly wrist cut.So I think its ok for a man to have a scar.People get accidents everyday and it can happen to everyone.But mum doesnt share my opinion.So fellow CSers.What do you think ,Should I have a cosmetic surgery or I should leave it.
And ,do visible scars give a bad image about the person who has it?
And Ladies!What's your opinion about men with scars?
Comments (28)
what you think about it. I have innumerable scars and I am
indifferent as to what other people might or might not think about them. Some women might find scars 'manly' (puff out the chest)!
Your Mum loves you, and she wants to remain as perfect as the day that she gave birth to you. Besides you did not upload a photograph for us to view the cause of this debate, and your search for a resolution to your dilemma.
David.
11.48 a.m. GMT, 1/12/2011.
This is like doing Key Hole Surgery!!
Doc Parti..
I just saw the pic and I guess it looks a bit scary to your mom because it's a relatively fresh scar (I mean still too pink). With time it will get more and more invisible. Also, there are some gels/creams for scars. I don't know how efficient they are but after my son'r surgery we were advised to use them and now his scar is not so visible, probably also because the skin streches when he grows up...
Anyway, such scars are moere a turn on than a turn off for women... She s going to kiss it, you know! We women have mild hearts
If that was a deliberate attempt, I can assure you of one thing . . .
I WILL NOT
ASK YOU
TO CARVE
THE CHRISTMAS TURKEY
Just look at how moch attention your scar is getting for you.
Are you really considering giving up THAT advantage
If its not bothering your........ leave it
just give her another topic for discussion like smoking ore girls and she'll forget about that scar foreva
Also, I believe there is a new non-surgical technique for reducing scaring involving perforating the skin (with no more than a little anaesthetic cream needed) to promote your own body's healing response.
Besides that, I just want to point out that my scar's much bigger and uglier than yours which obviously means I'm much bigger and tougher than you.
Jac,thank you.I might think about treatment in a couple of years.Lets see how its gonna look by that time.But vitamins E r good.
Add baddest to that list too, eh?
Jack.
I have a scar on my leg, which makes for an interesting story. Let's just say I had a fight with a saw, and the saw won.
Lq
Hugger.Agree with you.Next time make sure you beat the saw.
Thank you guys n girls for your comments.