how to cope with life on our own before involving

How to cope with life on your own before involving someone else, is the name of the Blog, sorry!

Just enjoy the single life.Sometimes its the best than involving not the right person.

Dear ExitMadrid, I think most of the problems here are that people don't cope with life on there own before they involve someone else . They expect the other to solve the problem . Let's hope we live and learn .

I have found that after 18 years of marriage, then being divorced that this forum allows you to reach out and explore what and who is out there validating that you still can be attractive to someone, Just a thaught

Thanks guys for your fast report, I could not agree more!!!! are we all humans digging in desperation?

Hi ExitMadrid
I don't 'network' to cope (or hide from) my daily life; I see this virtual social network as an addition. Ofcourse you can write down your thoughts and ask for opinions, but in the end you're the one having to cope by yourself and that's fine.
I would rather turn to a close friend or family member for serious advice or help if I was in need.


Virgo, don't start about toilet seats please; if it wasn't for those...

Firas: thanks a lot for the flowers!

Sweetkitten: lovely hearing from you and many thanks for your wise advise. I decided to left the pub/club option 10 years ago but seems will have to reconsider it on more often

Virgo: love your humor!! thanks!

Sleepin-bird: thanks a lot for your interest and caring! I am sorry if my words caused the opposite effect... my English sometimes is not very accurate. Like you I am of the same opinion about CS, nontheless we are all very different and thought it was useful to hear other views about the site... guess I met some lovely people around with a rather curious vision about what the site could be about . Apart from that must tell I am enjoy the experience specially now that I have managed to discover other ways to interact with people ie: blogging!:

Big thanks to all!

thanks Virgo!!

Hi ExitMadrid!

It's important for us to be complete on our own ... to be able to find our own balance and our own path to happiness.

It's more meaningful to find happiness with someone else but if we require them, then we're incomplete in some way (and we're dependent on them to provide the balance/happiness we're unable to find on our own).

Social contact ... including virtual places like CS, is important to our balance... our level of emotional energy... and our happiness.

ExitM...Life is BLISS without a MISS!!!

I have to agree with Inthemind on this one.

Nice blog ExitMadrid, some good comments from others as well. Glad to see you on here. I hope you enjoy it.

@bsooner

CS isn't really a social network, although it pretends to be
People aren't really all that friendly, it seems their agendas don't mesh well with most others so its very conflicting and only a lucky few truly make it off of here with what they came for

I'm here for the free salsa and chips

I'm here for the Free Once a Year

I think my computer by now should have learned to go strigt to cs blogs when i turn it on.
I can rather reprogram it later.

I am the type of person that tries not to involve others when coping with something in life that is difficult. I guess being a cerebral type (thinker), I feel I can manage thru whatever comes my way without burdening someone else with my issues. But I would guess my stubbornness and pride also contributes to that as well.

I do like sites like this wirh forums and blogs where others are experiencing similar things and feeling as myself. I can bounce ideas around, and while giving others advice and insight it sometimes help me think about what I have going on, and in turn help myself realize some things.