Pffft. Who needs a relationship?

She is a great girl with everything a man could want from a woman and yet I still can't involve myself for some reason.

I shall sit perpetually on the shelf. Please dust around me and move me from time to time.

Great, I've gotta write another profile. Anyone wanna do that for me?
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Hey parti - A profiler you say. Hmmm, the only kind of profiler likely to come to my door is one looking for a sociopath. And probably find one.laugh
CASE SOLVED!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Don't give up,same thing happened to me.He was a gentleman that a woman would want and he had everything but if it's not in your heart move on Best of luck hug
CASE SOLVED!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Ham - More work do be done on "self"? ... or perhaps just not the right chemistry/time ...

Good to see you... just the same. cheers
How frustrating though, All the boxes are ticked, but you aren't compelled to swim the seven seas, climb the highest mountain.....,you just aren't moved.

Bah!!! I shall grow old and grumpy, and enjoy it.
hammock
I agree with you who needs it go out have fun enjoy life don't tie yourself down to one woman have as many as you can...
morg - you have a gift.laugh
Ham!

Good to see you back. Hey! If it wasn't right then it wasn't right. I have nothing to say bad about it. I'm with you if that's the way you want it!
Hey Hammock, go out and get some!!! Yeah!devil Allll Night!!! Ha ha ha!!! Go fishing, it might help. You might find a nice fishing ho, er hole. lol. Come home smelling like fish..lol. Yeah!!!
Meanwhile, if you should be feeling sad because a relationship didnt work out.. I recommend HEAVY DRINKING!!! cheers beer wine drinking grin
Ah, you see. The troops are rallying in support. Thanks guys.

Ed and rbrt, how jolly good it is to see you two again.thumbs up
Hammock...Heres one from a Blogger a While back!!
Tell em Nothin!
Take em nowhere!!
And treat them like a Doormat when you dont get there!!!wow
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A real charmer, parti.
HAMMOCK!!!!!!! So sorry things didn't work out for you, but sooo glad you're back applause applause hug
Hammock, sorry to hear it didn't work out for you. Keep your chin up and don't loose hope. Even grumpy's deserve love. Oh yea, don't get too attached to the moniker of grumpy.....I plan to retire one day and open a business of some kind and call it Grumpies! tongue rolling on the floor laughing

Welcome back friend! cheers
Hammock, here's another one.. A married couple after one year of marriage: The husband tells the wife "This weekend Im taking you to somewhere you've never been before". She replies "Oh great! Where is that"? He answers "Our Kitchen". lol. grin cheers
Maybe you are not readyprofessor professor maybe you havent sown enough wild seedgrin grin
Really nice to have such a warm welcome back from you all, thanks so much.

sweet, my sewing days are done, except the kind that might be done in a rocking chair in front of a fire. AHA!!! That's it, I'll take up sewing, crocheting or quilt making to keep me occupied. humbsup:
Yea,Morgenluv...write me a new profile too!!!laugh
never got a chance to say hi, before you left ! laugh welcome back!cheers
Hey Hammock, I have been looking everyday to see when you will come back. I have been watching your story from the sidelines. So sorry it did not work out for you. moping
quest - Thanks and nice to see you. The problem that is most concerning is I have a sneaking suspicion I may have wanted it to NOT work out.


inthemind - perhaps a little more work on the self is indeed needed. Sub conscious sabotage may have well been at play here.confused
lostin - Thanks for the welcome. cheers
Re not wanting the relationship to work: I know what you mean. I too have been in situations such as that. You really want a relationship but sometimes you just know somewhere deep inside that this is not the right person for you. From some of your earlier blogs about this, I sensed that you had a few doubts. Even though it is probably for the best, it is still not easy, cause now you are back to square 1. I can so relate to this!!doh
Why is it so hard to find someone???? The world is big enough. moping
Hammockman, welcome back.

Did you bring some drinking Ham? I am in the mood for it....cheers
Hammock-I think sometimes we think we want something too much and then the opposite seems to go into effect......I am sure in time...alll things work out!hug
Hey shay - Thanks. It looked like you disappeared for a bit. Glad it was only temporary.
Lachi said HI too Ham
Maybe we also believe that the elusive partner will be the final peace to complete our puzzle and so we perhaps try and push what might be initial concerns to the rear in the hope that just having someone will give us what we need and compensate for lack of other things. Never works that way though, huh?

Regardless, one isn't going to know if they don't get out there and look. We won't find the other if we just lurk in the bushes I guess.
Shay - thanks. Spoke to lachica on the phone last night.
Morgen....thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
You're on a roll

Welcome back hammockman! I know what feels like. I meet a guy from cs....was a great guy but no chemistry. It was hard to do & I was crying because I ended it. He asked me if we could be friends & I'm ok with that.

Hopefully next time you'll have better luck. It just means you're closer to meeting the right one. Hang in there she's out there somewhere. And its good to see you again. cheers hug
zweet - hi zweet. Yeah it's really a shame when everything else seems to be in there except the ZING!!!
Hammockmanwave applause welcome back homehug peace
Thanks marlene, nice to be back.
Dear Hammockman,

I completely know what you mean....
who needs a relationship.... maybe nobody needs, all we are capable to live single... maybe we just... want.
But want and be strong to became couple is maybe difficult, a lot of work and we are a bit scared from being responsible for someone´s else happiness cool
Welcome back hammockman tip hat
Aswina, I can relate to a person not wanting to be responsible for another's happiness although ultimately everyone is responsible for their own happiness and can choose to stay or go as they please. There is also the question of can I be bothered to put in the effort required, but then it shouldn't really be that difficult to raise the energy if the other is right for you. Ah, I don't know.

There is grey matter all over the walls again.
aloha! good to see you back wave
cheer up HM, gets better each time cheering
Mnemo - I'm sure most of us have had the experience.

Hi Marsh - good to see you also. I'm not that sad.grin
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