Hight

Some women goes like 10 - 15 cm (3-5 inches) higher then themselves in their search criteria, if thay have any.
How shallow is that or is it morraly ok to want that tall handsome guy? To mee it feels like thay sell their beauty.
The more beautiful thay are the more up on the scale thay can afford to put the limit, litturally speaking.

And one more thing, why is all irish woman demanding them so close? Why is it not even considered to accept someone move in, like for instance me. What is that then?

This blog is about shallowness vs real love.
Post Comment

Comments (62)

Red wave

You are unique lady here,with down to earth demands cheers
Thank you Firas wine wave
I like them tall cause I'm tall myself. I like to be eye to eye or look up, not down. But no biggie I'll date someone a couple inches shorter if everything else about him is cool. Just can't wear my heels as I'll look silly! That's OK cause I don't wear them a lot anyway. As Jana says it's what you're attracted to. Maybe it's that protector thing too.
Accept that Jana. No problem. Now we all know what you like.
cheers

Hi Red. bouquet

Ye, this same hight thing as the lower limit i have understanding for. But Personally i can't really fig out why he needs to be taller. Listen its the ppl who put this as a demand u know: '15cm taller thankyou' im talking about. If your negotionable at the same hight as you cos the chemestry proves fab then its how it should be innit? JMO
NONNEGOTIONABLE 15CM TALLER???????????????
gemme a break giggle

I always liked a woman with a hip to waist ratio de la feminina, but i'll take a 1 : 1 ratio anyday if the connection is fab, tell you that!

bouquet
So sure.... but hay, ---morgan going politically correct again..lol
Isen't it the PAERSONALLITY that we're supposed to be the MOST attracted to, withing ceartain minimum physical requirements?

Jana, we agree actually. I also have some minimum req's (atleast i think so), and your same hight as myself policy i acceopt easily as one of those that are not too hars.

hug
same height or taller than me, please.

I agree with maxismad´s last comment. thumbs up

I also think most men prefer shorter women... Am I wrong?

I´ve just checked out my match info and found this: 5' 6" (168 cm) to 7' 11" (241 cm) rolling on the floor laughing

gonna change that now because I don´t need a giant! rolling on the floor laughing

what about you, morgenulv? Do you prefer shorter or taller women? Would you date a taller woman? wave
Sorry Morgie Love smoking
but short men are mostly easily upset, venomous, with strained reactions, they still feel like comparing themselves to other men - my personal experience, after 2 coffee dates and one dinner I ran away faster than Michael Phelps in Beijing grin grin grin
Sorry, for the calm of my soul, minimum 176 cm thumbs up tip hat
Morgen, let's not confuse things and speculate with shallowness and personality, blah, blah, blah. Personality attraction is one thing and appearance attraction is another thing. If I am only attracted by the appearance, I can't be with that man unless for one-night stand (probably). If I am attracted by the personality either, I couldn't be with that man unless like only friends. So body and soul must match at least to some degree. Let's say, 70% of my appearance criteria + 80% of my personality criteria. Or maybe even lower, it depends on what he lacks. I would be curious if there are some scientific studies on the subject about attraction, criteria, possible compromises etc!
Thats why i say i we agree Jana, its a combination and needs to be.

What im asking in the blog is: is it shallow to demand the guy to be 15cm taller.
Why do you think it's shallow? It's not more shallow than any other criteria. If it's a condition that we feel comfortable with that person, nothing is shallow! Of course, if it's the GREAT LOVE, there aren't any reasonable criteria ;) But that GREAT LOVE comes rarely so I wouldn't count on it! wave
And if you want my top personality criteria, they are the man to be a NICE person. To care about me. And to say what he thinks and to do what he says. And you know what? So simple criteria but it's terribly difficult to meet such a man...
what some of you call "shallow" others call preference. I see no problem at all. I have male friends that only date shorter women. Are they shallow? Not for me.
Thats good to know Ariel. I have that nice and trusthworthy, so i hope that will get me somewhere.

I note you down as vote: "not shallow". writing

angel2

smile
Morg is that the same tooth-ache since New Year????wow

Did you ever go to the dentist with that onescold
Btw, I think you are just the right height for me winkblushing teddybear
Mysticalli vote for "not shallow". writing

bouquet
No cofy, this one is another. Ate much of hard candy after that you know... grin The one back then was elegantly fixed by my dentist few days later and good foundation was layed by the indian doc Tanya found for me 1st of january! Hehe, he was cool!
Gave me 4 different suscriptions hehe. Tanya was super helpful!

thumbs up
I guess we already have our "hard-drive" wired into what we like and what we don't like. I normally like fairer men and a bit taller than me....though I have dated men an inch shorter than me and have dated darker skinned men. I try to be more interested in the goodness of someone than their looks...though it is always nice to enjoy looking at your significant other.....teddybear
Yea, that i can sign on! I always like to look at your face here Calli! Brightens my day each time, without exception.

lips
I second Summer's comment, morgen. Personally I think taller man will make me feel protected flirty wine
hey morgan, good to see you again... im a guy and i am atracted to very short woman for some reason.
i have had girl friends that had amazing personalitys,
and then they where stunningly beutifull to top it off.
but there was never that real attraction,
i i geus it is because i am not very wealthy and highly reveared i felt that i didnt have that much to offer, seeing as these girls where not only my intelectual ewuals but also very independed and tall, i felt like i didnt have much to offer.
i need to be needed.
like woman who stay with abusing or sicly men, they feel needed.

so i gues it might be the same with woman, maybe they want someone that has that sence of self worth. they want to be protected but wants the man to feel like the protecter.
like extremely intelegant woman will dumb them selfs down for the one they love but tall woman cant make them selfs shorter apart from sawing off theyre legs lol
Thanks for inputs. Intresting reading Linz. I get your thinking.

coffee coffee coffee
Post Comment - Let others know what you think about this Blog.

About this Blog

by morgenulv
created Mar 2012
2,299 Views
Last Viewed: Apr 20
Last Commented: Mar 2012
morgenulv has 43 other Blogs

Like this Blog?

Do you like this Blog? Why not let the Author know. Click the button to like the Blog. And your like will be added. Likes are anonymous.

Feeling Creative?