I'm not sure how things are in other countries....

but here in the US, I don't think the elderly are as respected as they should be. They are, in alot of instances, targets for scammers and con-artists, looked at as a burden (to some) and kind of hidden away.blues

I don't think this is right...it's like they've been used up and just tossed away moping disposable people....

How are the elderly treated in other countries?

Just curious.......dunno
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Igs
ususally one of the kids or all of them , take care of the old parents ,till the time they die.u see family bonds r still strong here.
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I though you left....SOOOOOO glad you didn't cheering cheering

No disrespect in your statement. I fear that the young people don't realize how much they could learn from the elders. Such a shame.......
Blue: That, in my opinion, is as it should be thumbs up However, I have had the conversation with my grown children. I don't want to be a burden on any of them. What if I become a danger to myself or to them? I don't want them to carry that burden....ya know?? dunno
Hello Space wave Thanks for stopping by! So, as future "oldsters" what do we do now to either insure we won't be a burden to our family....or be "thrown away"?confused
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Well it's depend of individual belief I think. Personally I wouldn't mind to retired in the forest, when I am no longer productive and becoming a charge for the society, as I am completely fearless about death! handshake
Space...so, a geriatric Daniel Boone huh?? Not a bad idea grin You could wander aimlessly, talk to the trees and nobody would look at you funny..laugh laugh
Igs foot worry , if u r a danger for u and others , there r always special institutions and clinics to take care of u .
Blue...Yes I know...and that's just what I've discussed with my kids. Just put me there and visit when you can. If I'm that bad, I won't even know....
My daughter won't hear of it....but I tease her and tell her that the only reason she wants to take care of me is so she can dress me funny and take me out in public......laugh laugh
Space....Maybe you're right....just make the most of now and the future will take care of itself????
Igs...you still far too young to worry about the triviality of wearing funny clothes when in 20.000 years you might get old...don't you think? Just asking rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Even now on the moments of that dark era for my country , families is the solution for many unemploied . For little children with parents unable to provide them food and clothing , grant parents is there for them and the other way.
Space...OH, from time to time I just think about things...I'm kind od a worrier and planner...."This too shall pass" laugh laugh

I'm afraid I took us off topic blushing I was initially wondering how other countries treat their elderly.......(Maybe subconsciously I'm gathering information for when I retire.....) dancing
Blue The family social structure in your country is still strong, you lived under the Colonel regime until late however within the nordern societies of Europe I am not so sure that the family social structure is still as strong as in your country..let's hope not!
Blue: I really believe that THAT is the way family should be. We, I guess, are of the lucky ones. hug
Space mon ami hi europe has to change a lot if they want to stay together as a union. But i'm afraid they dont care any more. Rich north countries got all they could from the "poor" south and now its time to keep their loot. Lol
Hi lgswave Interesting blog! thumbs up Here in my country we take care of our parents. That seems correct to me. Of course is hard everyday but I dont see them as a problem or burden. They have given me so much love and respect, that now when they need me Im happy to do the same for them. I know your daughter agrees with me. The warmth of home strengthens the spirit, also they need more love and more communication.
One can not imagine what may be the loneliness of old age, until it begins to appear daily before our eyes, the wrinkled face of an old man who spends his days waiting for the arrival of a brother or friend who never come to visit or the silence of an old woman who prays for some children who have not returned to ask for her.

Life is a cicle. We all need our family and love is always the best choise. teddybear teddybear
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Igs I guess that at the moment the elderly are still "well" looked after in general, of course as usual there are exceptions. Will have to see in 20/30 years how it will be for us!!!

Blue I always been an Anti European Unionist and a anti Zero...Ooops sorry Euro (common money) the way it was made... I hate centralism and centralization!!!
Maritarosi....You put it so beautifully wine thumbs up
lgs37 I took care of my parents it was important to me. I would do it again if I had the opportunity. You are right it is a growing trend for people to just turn their backs on their own family. Such a shame. blues Where I live we get alot of elderly from up north. They are sent here when they are getting up in years and then basically abandoned by their families. Florida the retirement state mumbling I think seeing this made me more aware of how I needed to be in my parents lives. A few years back I was at a department store and an elderly woman come over to me. Asked me if I would help her get her watch off. She said she had been trying to get it off herself it had quit working and she could not get it off. She actually did not have good motor skills with her limbs. the watch was so embedded in her skin that when it came off there was dead skin all over the back of the watch. I thought I was going to be sick. It took a long time for me to get it off for fear I would rip her frail skin and she would bleed blues My parents and grandparents are gone now. it makes me sad when people throw away perfectly good parents and grandparents. You are from the us so you know what an angel tree is. At christmas I grab the tag that are for seniors everyone wants to buy for the kids here. But the older ones need love too. teddybear
Sorry so long. Just a subject close to my heart.
Happy....Such a big heart you have!! Your parents were very lucky to have you and you were lucky to have had such good and compassionate teachers....hug
Parti hug All governments must be pretty much the same......while the rest of us are counting out pennies and cutting back where we can, they just keep getting more and more very mad Go figure.........thumbs down
Lgs..IT'S TRUE!!!doh So Help me!!!doh doh
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Parti...Oh I believe you!! very mad

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Hate to blog and run...gotta get some sleep though yawn yawn Stick around...hang out...have a party....talk to you all tomorrow......sleep sleep
G,Nite Lgs!!!yawn sleep sleep laugh
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Fortunately, here in Ireland, the system is improving greately and some strong laws are in place to protect the vulnerable.
lgs I have of course thought about this for myself being in Autumn years, hopefully a long Autumn. With the way the life goes for work etc my sons live far away, as many familys do not live close. The closness of this is a different kind.
I taught them to be independant and to go and search for what they want in life, not wait for it to come knocking on their door. this is my way of life too, the only thing I did was to find out properly how to end my own life in my own time by my own hand, with that knowledge I live okay. If the time came that I lost my mind well I will not worry about that one, what will be will be and that would be the only time I would have to relinguish how i live.
But yes I agree with you elderly people these days are not treated so good and we are all living so much longer this problem will only get bigger. I do see some countries still look after their elders as part of the family and all help each other that is a different mind set for all.teddybear
hi lgs!

I'm from Indonesia. Here, we're taking care and being taken care by our elders. For example, my grandma, she's 82 y.o, yet she still yells at me (also my cousins) or even my mum (and her siblings) if we don't do something that she tells us to do. on the other side, my mum and her siblings, are usually take turn in taking her out to visit her friends/children or just going somewhere. The family bonding is very strong here.

Actually, that's also what I see in the US. Didn't mean to be such a smartass, but I sometimes feel strange of how they can put the elders to the house for old people. It's a bit sad for me..
same every where just like high school the weak are picked on especially by the government here IRELAND
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