what a guy want, what a girl need ..

Do a man at late age usually just want some one to talk to , someone to sooth his own insecurity, someone to listen to his feelings ( which is apparently all they ever talk about ) out of the girl they chat ???
And do they usually have second thought on getting married, not because they need time, but they just want to have a squishy pink pillow to lean and take care of them and call it a relationship ?

Or do they actually need that but affraid if they say it then it will shortened the list of the girls they approach which came from a younger age ??

Well "IF" its true then, maybe they should really check the girls age bracket in dating sites like this.
Not of the age brackets the girls want out of a man, but the age bracket of the girl.

What a girl want is secondary to what a girls need, when a girl reaches 25-40 she would bring forth what she needs. It is their productive age and most think that they should not settle less then achievements, carrier, marriage, kids
And I personally believe that it is a waste of a girls time to neglect her need just because she is lonely and
want a man who cares for her.
And that she then open her possibilities of a much older age brackets which is what I sometimes did out of naif-ness can indeed back fired !


Sometimes feelings are NOT the main aspect of finding the right person.
Well not in that age bracket (25-40) atleast ..


I don't know, maybe by the time I'm over 40 I wil have different opinions
When I was in my early 20 I think jumping off a cliff is okay
But when I grow older I realize. There's stairs and elevators ..

So maybe age brackets are more important than it seems, because the want can be comprimise ...


But can ones need be that easily compromised ???