Enough to go on ??
When do you have enough to go with, to step across the boundary that divides friends and lovers ?. Am struggling with that at the moment with a woman who is today just a good friend.A woman with whom I think (but am not sure) I could be more that just friends. Getting signals that maybe she is struggling with the same boundary. Maybe I'm imagining it. Lost a really good friendship before with a women that I crossed that boundary with. Couldnt get back across the bridge afterward - it had been washed away in the breakup, damn it.
Will give it a while longer maybe of being just friends and see does it get any clearer. Anyone got a crystal ball on these things ?
Peter
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Her lips on your body. ;)
Kiss her on her cheek and see if it leads to more.
The chances are if you feel that this lady is feeling the same way, and if you know her well enough, why don't you just talk to her more about boundaries? This lady maybe waiting for you to approach her with this subject. Only you will know when the right time is (for you and hopfully her). Trust your own instinct and judgment, if its ment to be, then it will happen in due course, if not then there is somebody else your destined for! Just don't leave it too late, trust your heart. Hope this helps, good luck whatever you decide to do!
Talking with her about it, will spoil the magnetic charge you two
have created. Action speaks much louder than words anyway.
Vinny
hmmmmm, Peter you might want to walk softly for a while. See if she gives off any more signals. You never know, she might be confused about her feelings or she might not. She may not know she's giving off the signals to begin w/, I know a friend that has that problem, course she's a little out of touch w/ reality
If she gives you some more signals, breach the subject w/ her. She may just go for it. But then a quick smooch may lead to a quicker answer, for better or for worse.
Good luck and take care,
Tip