Long distance relationship.
Trust, distance, time differences, those are what I find challenging about long distance relationship. What else do you think the challenges? Please share, as I really want to overcome this. I have never been good at this, always last less than 3 months... which actually makes me think why I stay in this site
but then I still enjoy the blogs and some friends I have made here, though lately it seems more hatred than love showed here. Anyway, back to long distance relationship, what do you find challenging about it?
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but no luck...maybe because the distance
or just they thought I was a gold digger.
Any specific reason for western europe? I never think about any specific country nor race, it just didn't work
agree! distance and time differences become the obstacle of communication, which become obstacle of trust, and lack of touch just make it worse... so... no to long distance relationship?
I was thinking on moving to Europe...I was in the army
stationed in Germany...so, I learned to love Europe
and their way of life. I still do.
that explains. Well I hope you find what you are looking for here
im not known for my patience also so it will work if both people want it to work and one has to move
the hope is gone...I've been here for 2 years
now I'm into the blogs and poet's corner.
That's all.
what will happen?
How can this succeed?
How can this last?
What is going to happen?
I think thats one of the art of ldr,mbak
yeah, I am sometimes, or most of the time, impatient too... and surely in the end one has to move.
Bunga,
no, don't give up, someone is out there for everyone, take Vulpin and Nessa for example.
Vulpin,
thank you for sharing your story. But have you met Nessa in person? I had that passionate relationship over emails and phone, but when we met, no chemistry... it seemed we had our own version of how we would like the other party to be... and when we did meet, we were with a different person than whom we had in mind. there you go, another challenge: expectation.
is he really like what he tried to present himself? or what we thought he is
I wish you and him enough
Keeping up the communication is very challenging especially if his time changed due to daylight saving time
Thank you to modern technology that communicating through internet (email, chat, video chat), phone calls, or sending texts made it easier to keep the communication going on. Well, yes, sometimes there was difficulty in keeping up the communication like bad signal or flat battery and so on; patience and trust helped
Never give up, mbak, you won't know what awaits you in the future so keep trying
now you're talking! Ask him to bring phone charger anywhere he goes, or keep one in his bag in case he forgets
He's gradually getting better day by day which made me (and him) relief
Enjoy your status now
hey maybe you could write about the movie here? the bit and pieces about mixed race marriage and relocating afterward, I saw you giggling many times watching it. maybe imagining yourself in that movie?
for me the most challenging beside all is our feelings...
you must be able to beat your feelings
and its not easy
I hope you have courage to begin LDR
your big love
than any LDR problem
Welcome to LDR and Good Luck
Aku senang loh hari ini
bisa baca tulisan Saras lagi
I was giggling because I was thinking of my friends' experience with their mixed-marriage and I was thinking that he would ask the title of the movie. There were indeed some funny scenes in the documentary movie
He indeed asked the title and when I was telling him, I was afraid he might think I was rushing things
I don't remember the name of the actress, so I prefer you, mbak Saras, to write a blog about it if you want to. I leave it to the expert as you had many experiences in film and showbiz industry
I couldn’t agree more. At the end of the dat our own feelings is the biggest weakness and strength we have.
Aku juga senang, teman-teman membaca dan memberi komentar. Terima kasih ya atas dukungannya.
Cyn,
Yep, what both party want in a relationship is important, if they don’t want the same thing, better forget it.
lebih pas kamu ah, kan kamu akan menjalani. Jadi apa yang kamu rasakan dan apa yang kamu tonton, bagaimana perbandingannya. Bagaimana perasaan kamu sebelum dan sesudah menonton ini. Kan ini blog di dating site, bukan pecinta film