stormylady81

stormylady81

Dec 2012

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My Fellow CS Bloggers and Friends

I NEED YOUR HELP! There is this guy that I have been talking to for many, many months. He even talked about what would it be like if it was the two us and all. He implied that he had special feelings for me. But when I asked him if we were exclusive he said that no because it would not be fair to do that to me. He said it was okay if I talk to other guys but when we talk and I told him about the other guys, he gets mad. Today when we were chatting, he said that he was almost hospitalised and I said that someone should take care of him, he said that yes and that I go to the US to visit my relatives and to see him also. I told him no cause I needed to save money for Canada. He asked me why and I said that I had plans on migrating there. He got mad all of a sudden and asked why I never informed him. I told him that I did and he just probably forgot. He suddenly went all dramatic on me saying that he I was a liar and all. I was confused and he said that there is no future for us. Why was he like that when we did not even have plans on being together. He even had doubts about meeting me because I might not be real. He started getting all nasty and stuff. I have been totally honest with him. I tried to communicate at times but he was most of the time not talkative. I do not understand it!

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Susanne1●Kreuzberg, Berlin Germany

Dec 8, 2012●10 Blogs●200 Comments

Sounds like he's a fake. Or married. Or both.
Either way, you don't have to defend yourself, you haven't done anything wrong.
You'd be amazed how many fakes there really are on this site. Some even post for years and fool lots of people...

Boban1●bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia

Dec 8, 2012●44 Blogs●1,278 Comments

stormylady, do you want a honest opinion or sugarcoated ???

Susanne1●Kreuzberg, Berlin Germany

Dec 8, 2012●10 Blogs●200 Comments

It's a shame that you invested so much time and perhaps some feelings in him too, but as with everything, it's all trial and error. There's a nice guy around for you, the trick is not to accidentally walk past him without recognising him.

Good luck!

stormylady81OP●Richmond, California USA

Dec 8, 2012●23 Blogs●50 Comments

@Boban1..please be honest with me

timotie●Peshawar, Khyber Pakhtunkhwa Pakistan

Dec 8, 2012●65 Blogs●1,214 Comments

Dear Boban.
I like your Question.

zmountainman●Motril, Andalusia Spain

Dec 8, 2012●107 Blogs●7,852 Comments

Stormy, just taking the first part of your blog where you talk about being exclusive, what people say & what they mean are two different things, he told you he didn't mind if you talked to other men, were that to be true he wouldn't have feelings for you, the fact he got annoyed showed the opposite, I've never met a man who wouldn't be jealous in a case such as this, especially as you are miles apart. Other members will voice their opinions on this guy being fake & he may well be but I'd see any proof of this in your blog, JMO

Gullie●Halifax, Nova Scotia Canada

Dec 8, 2012●1 Blogs●265 Comments

Hi Stormy: From what you have related, this fellow would be your worse nightmare. He's not some one I would trust or come within a meter of. He is certainly bringing no joy or hope for the future and God only knows what he is hiding from you. In other words, he is using you, but he see you have a mind of your own and does not like that because you are not falling into his plans which he is keeping from you. When you question him or have doubts, he does not like that and gets angry. From the sound of it, he could be a very dangerous man to become involved with. Just dump him without any question or answer. Just cut him off without notice and have nothing to do with him. I know this may sound harsh, but he has not intention of trying to make your life a happy one. He is doing everything just for his own purpose which is better for you to avoid.

Gullie●Halifax, Nova Scotia Canada

Dec 8, 2012●1 Blogs●265 Comments

Stormy: Believe me, HE IS TRYING TO CONTROL YOU...WHAT YOU THINK AND WHAT YOU DO (other guys, going to Canada) Confusion is what he wants so you will rely on him and DO WHAT HE TELLS YOU TO DO. He is being dishonest with you and people like that point their finger at the other person and accuse them to hide their own lies. He is not talkative at times because you have asked him something he does not want to give you an honest answer.

Ed1941●Bullhead City,, Arizona USA

Dec 8, 2012●151 Blogs●4,758 Comments

Sounds like Gullie has the answer so I will just say this. Don't be confused be happy you got rid of this guy!

Gullie●Halifax, Nova Scotia Canada

Dec 8, 2012●1 Blogs●265 Comments

That is the questions. Do you think he is going to welcome his new girlfriend to meet his wife?? I'll can easily say he is not going to say to his wife what he said to Stormy... with a plan of marrying Stormy. Do you really believe he has already indicated that to his wife? i.e. if he really has a wife??? What can Stormy say about this fellow that she knows is the absolute truth about him? NOTHING!!! Nothing about a divorce, .... there is nothing of any certainty for Stormy to make such a trip to the unknown just on his say so.

Stormy, just please be very careful.

stormylady81OP●Richmond, California USA

Dec 8, 2012●23 Blogs●50 Comments

Everyone, thank you so much. I all see your point and I believe that he is a fake. If he was really in to me, he would have already come and visited me. In fact, he said the he was married before and got divorced. Maybe he really was not divorced and was just leading me on. Thank you much. Now I feel better...

takemetofrance●Vicenza Italy, Manama Bahrain

Dec 8, 2012●63 Blogs●844 Comments

Ditch him , move on , plenty fish in the sea , don't waste another moment on him ... thats what i'd do my dear ...saskia

KNenagh●Aachen, Kilkenny Ireland

Dec 8, 2012●3 Blogs●3,678 Comments

Hi Stormlady, I think everyone comes along people like that on here, you did nothing wrong, some people are just not "right in the head" or however you want to call it.

Best of luck to you.

HOUSTON4●Lampeter, Dyfed, Wales UK

Dec 8, 2012●31 Blogs●705 Comments

We only hear one side of the story and it's always the other persons fault, surprise, surprise another sympathy blog!

After reading your blog and reading your profile I see no mention of you moving to Canada

Now for a reality check

Why are you not mentioning on your profile that you are moving to Canada

why did you not tell the guy at the start you were moving to Cananda

Why did you waste the guys time for months

What's the point in chatting to guys where you are currently living, when surly it would be better to chat to guys in Canada if that is where your moving too

I'm afraid what ever way you look at it you are a time waster and I can see why the guy is upset, because I don't like my time being wasted either!

jac379●pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK

Dec 8, 2012●3 Blogs●431 Comments

Is this how you picture a happy, healthy relationship to be?

Try reading Gavin de Becker's book, The Gift of Fear. I bet my bottom dollar you will see some traits exhibited by this bloke listed in this book.

shay28●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Dec 8, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Nagkakausap po kayo on cam?

stormylady81OP●Richmond, California USA

Dec 9, 2012●23 Blogs●50 Comments

Hi Shay, oo palagi kami sa SKype pero nagulat nga ako kung bakit sya ganyan....ewan ko ba Shay...baka hndi sya talaga para sa akin. There are other fish in the sea..

chris27292729●IOS island, South Aegean Greece

Dec 9, 2012●109 Comments

Anothe internet dating drama.

shay28●Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia

Dec 9, 2012●43 Blogs●3,078 Comments

Daming sakit noh Te. Nakakawala na ng pag-asa, pero sige lng darating din and para sa iyo.

RAHUL143KHAN●Delhi, India

Dec 10, 2012●29 Blogs●168 Comments

u should be thankful of God that it was not harmful atleast u r saved.just move on and be happy.

mikenewtothis●Gippsland, Victoria Australia

Dec 17, 2012●46 Blogs●1,088 Comments

STORMY I THINK JUST ABOUT EVERYONE HERE HAS GIVEN YOU THE BEST ADVICE YOU CAN GET ,CUT ALL TIES TO HIM MOVE ON ,IF HE IS LIKE THIS NOW IMAGINE IF YOU WERE WITH HIM WHAT YOU WOULD BE LIKE ,YOU SOUND LOVELY LOOK LOVELY AND I AM SURE YOU WILL FIND A GOOD MAN IN CANADA ,GO ENJOY DO NOT HESISTATE ,------------------------HI BELLA HOW YOU HOW YOUR VIDS GOING MUST CHECK

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