Physical Appearance

I am not being bitchy or anything but just curious. I am just baffled. As someone who doesn't look like the typical Filipina (brown skinned and slim), men don't spare me a second look while some women who look like that gets all the attention. Is society nowadays based on physical appearance before approaching them and starting a conversation?
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Yes and no. First impression is based on looks but also on the way one looks: a beautiful woman scowling and dragging her steps will get overlooked where a plain woman radiating interest in life, with a spring in her step, draws people. dunno

I'm not goodlooking, but I know when I'm up, I can pull pretty much anyone I set my sights on. When I'm down, guidedogs cross the street to stop their owners bumping into me!! rolling on the floor laughing
Maybe you dont notice men looking as they wait until you turn away from them. Some men are very discrete.

Contrary to belief, men prefer chubby women over slim women.
Society always was. Everything was greyer in the past and there wasn't the arms race to be beautiful simply because there wasn't the products there. Advances in cosmetics, dental care, and hygiene have all beautified the world, however, obesity and sedentary living have more than undone this gain. Today we probably have prettier faces but much worse bodies.

Anyway, my Grandad felt the exact same way about beautiful women when he was my age as I do now. This hasn't changed. Natural beauty trounces anything else for men, but being well turned-out is important(how important depends on the man).
it's people personal opinions
all men as well women not same in this beautiful world
Hi stormy,

human beings have long been programmed to focus on looks (an image, beyond the pull of physical attraction). Having said that, I think what El and Sol say is accurate...

Firstly.. our appearance IS something beyond our external form.. what we exude from the inside out is what ultimately draws or repels people

Secondly... don't be so sure men are not noticing you!!

In a world of comparison, this is not always easy but see what happens when you refrain (I mean truly refrain) from comparing yourself to others or them to you rose
I like the long hair look better.
Maybe you should join a harem. If you read my blog there is some interest from other ladies.
Ignore mo ang gnyan sisterette,mga manyakis nman kung gnun.laugh

Hyaan mo lang myddating para sayo.professor
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