So much for equality......
Is it too much to speak your mind when you disagree with something to a man???
Is it too much to argue on something that you feel is not right to a man??? 
Is it true that a woman is supposed to listen to a man and follow what the man has to say??? Is it true that a woman can not have a say as the man leads??? This sounds so primitive but I have come across one just like that. Or could it be that tradition or religion plays a big role in it????I hope I can get some feed back from Asian men and women or Indonesian men and women in particular cos I have come across a guy who is finding it so hard to accept the fact that I can speak my mind.
Comments from other bloggers are more than welcome too. I might get some insights to this frustrating situation.....
Inputs very much appreciated. Thanks....
Comments (23)
the man who not accepted it... mmhh.... sounds like a dictator!
I do respect the other person's comments but sometimes it is difficult for the that person to accept what I have to say.
If that is something that you neee to talk then speak out, sometimes the true and being honest can be so paintful. Doesn't mean not respect others if you speak out as long as you know how's to pick your words/wise way.
Hope you will find good way for your problem
So far I have seen it to be this way where men have the authority pretty much. I have female friends that advised me to keep quiet for peace sake. Unbelievable!!!!.....One thing that I just can't do is sit still and shut up if something is just not right....grrrrrr..gets me into a lot of trouble though.....
are you familiar with that phrase?
I agree with Lavina, pick nice/wise words in order to avoid mess it up
and remember; stay cool and calm
Where were you.
You cn't see mY hand.
I mean it is done but never with the desired result
We are in the 21st century and things have changed in modern relationships.
But the truth is always one.
If a woman is rights of smart men would agree with her.
But not all so simple...
"If a woman is rights of smart men would agree with her".
I totally agree with you because that was exactly what I was doing, "Defending my own argument knowing that he was really really wrong"....
I don't mind at all....
Trust me men with BIG ego are terrible and not to mention if it was BIG AND BROKEN ego. Theey are the worse. Looking all macho strong on the outside but a wreck on the inside. And they usually cover it up with rudeness. And maybe this is where the injustice starts for most women.
You can either love them more to heal them, or pretend he didn't exist or leave.
You really hit the nail on the head. THe person I'm referring to is exactly like you picture in your comment...
Tatami : well the wisdom we acknowledge nowadays are once an eccentric thought and some of the thinkers are women ..