long distance love.......is this possible?????

what problems are there ......for a lady...reaching

her boyfriend's place,dunno confused

she from india....and he in ...America.....

in my opinion......long distance not a problem....if money

is not a problem....


what other problems ......will....be faced by going.....

all alone to a far distance ....one of the big states...

in America?????? lady have to be careful.....but....

what possible problems.....she could be facing....

i value all inputs......please let me know ....your

opinion...on this....love you all.....kiss wine help

(ps..worried about some unexpected problems)
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Do it ......its her real chance to have a real adventure ....


isn't the man suppose to chase the women ? doh
Culture shock and depending on the state and season COLD comes to my mind.
virgosingle,

hi darling.....kiss

why can't a woman chase a man???laugh wink
AND you/she may not like him in real life.
As I think about your situation. If it is a long distance specially when it become America and India,
If India goes to USA first issue is visa issue.Asian passports are having troubles everywhere for visa except you have enough zeros behind a one in your bank. USA is not that easy to deal if you are all alone I know because I grew up in USA. And if I were you I let the man come to me. If he is asking you to come then I dont believe he is in USA. confused confused Are you sure you want to take a risk like that?
yes why not ........I like women to make the first move ...save's me making a fool of myself ....teddybear
OutsideofBali,

hi babycheers

thanks darling.....keep posting....whatever

idea maybe.....something can really help me,

teddybear hug wine
OutsideofBali farfaraway, Aargau Switzerland

AND you/she may not like him in real life.

thumbs up thumbs up yes true......this is

really bothering my mind....thanks honey..teddybear wine
OutsideofBali farfaraway, Aargau Switzerland

AND you/she may not like him in real life.

thumbs up thumbs up yes true......this is

really bothering my mind....thanks honey..teddybear wine
Hi CMI
I think cultural differences must be the biggest obstacle. What is important to you might not matter to him and vice versa.
hug wave
Zeurich,

hi baby....cheers

honey.....if these things are not a problem,

then....what happens.....teddybear wine
Money is the main problem. Don't think it is a good idea to go to a country with the sole purpose of meeting someone. If you can include that person in your general holiday plans then do it by all means.
plan for doing a tour around the US ...so if the quest to find the perfect man fails , you can ovoid all the oil fracking sitesbanana
Instantly no problem. And I think it would be a heavenly adventure. But as the marriage not having a great future, so destined to meet its natural fate. So if you are prepared for that eventuality, then there can be no problem, not at all.
Should I congratulate you in advance! cheers
Catfoot,


hi baby....kiss

honey i hope....i can handle that....wine

something else is bothering me....dunno confused

i am not able to understand myself....help bouquet
ekself,

hi honey.....cheers

my problem is.....my mind says....

he is the man for me....but we have

yet to meet....personally....

teddybear hug wine
virgosingle,

baby.....i am really not interested

in touring.....believe it or not,

but he do not want to come ....doh

so he feels...at the movementkiss wine
iotaoo,

hi honey....cheers

i am not ......really interested

in visiting his place....now...

but ....he feels not possible

to come down.....so....i have less

choice...than ...to go meet him..kiss wine
I hope for your sake ....he turns out to be real and not some 14 year old kid playing around on a old compuer /.....kiss kiss
virgosingle,

thanks.....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

i did face to face.....skype.doh cheers
is this the end of cmyers mystery hour?//hope not/it wasnt starting to get good<<<<<<<<<
Good luck!
As I told cat a while back... Only way to make a long distance relation work, is to make it a short distance relation.
cool wine
So you call him your boyfriend already...doh
namaron,

hi honey.....cheers

your comment....sorry dunno confused help
iotaoo,

thanks baby....cheers wine
viking67,

hi darling....kiss

yes baby.......decide to live one year,

with him....hug wine
Ian158,

hi there ......cheers

sorry honey......don't understand,dunno confused
AND YES FOLKS////THAT WAS THE END OF THE CMYER MYSTERY HOUR//// STAY TUNED,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
namaron,

darling....this is only the beginning,

i plan to put a video.....once meeting

my man....wine
Hello CM,

I do not see any problems at all. Just have all your bases covered. If you are certain the guy you are interested is really the guy you think he is, it should work out beautifully.

Don't get in any stranger's car. Tip #1

wave
Johnny_Sparton,

hi baby.....cheers

thanks sweetheart...hug kiss wine
doh WELL?
@ cmiyer - wave ... First meeting should be in a public placewave like maybe a coffee shop and if you feel comfortable with him, make sure that someone else knows where you are going if it's with him alone..... conversing .... grin hug wine
angel
hi baby.....teddybear teddybear teddybear c inbwink
Hans4711,hi honey.....cheers thanks baby....kiss wine
wave Hi, Cmiyer
and when you get to the USA//watch out for the capitalists
Hi cmiyer wave

Apartment or house? Big city, small city, or rural community? Near (his) relatives? Does he work near his home? Does he travel for his job? (each of these brings some positive things and some potential challenges)

Do you have the financial ability to stay in a hotel for the first week? I've heard a few stories of people who made plans to stay with someone on their first visit and regretted not having an alternative.

"one of the big states" ... I'll guess California ... you may not need to worry about being cold laugh

Generally, the US is safe and people are kind and welcoming. Of course, this is probably true of every country.

Let me know if I can assist further ... I hope everything goes well for you/her.
and 60 rupees will be worth 1 dollar
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