Be Your Own Guru

What if you could be your own guru?

That’s not only possible, but preferable for your spiritual growth. Many of us, seasoned to believe we lack answers, look to others. We are trained to think answers are outside us. And, indeed, we do find many answers outside us — from writers, teachers, friends, groups, and organizations.

We might call these individuals and groups “external gurus” — and we have all been blessed by such gurus in our lives. There is often connection, safety, comfort, and support in receiving answers from others.

But the effect of turning to external gurus for ultimate answers can also sidetrack us from our own innate guru abilities.

For example, it is not uncommon for open-minded seekers to become impressed with spiritual teachers. After all, these teachers are often enlightening and inspiring. Yet, it is also not uncommon for spiritual seekers to experience a loss of self as a result. This often comes from believing someone is better qualified than you to tell you what you need to know, be, or do.

The more we explore the spiritual path, the more we discover the core truth that the highest answers needed for our lives are within us right now.

There is so much wisdom with-in you. Can you imagine turning to this wisdom within and thinking of yourself as your own guru?

No one knows your life, motives, and longings better than you. No one can surpass your own inner voice as the highest resource you have. You already have within you the solution and divine guidance you will need for the rest of your life. You have great ability to manifest as a resource to yourself.

Being your own guru doesn’t preclude reading books, listening to inspiring teachers, or joining organizations. But when you do these things, you can do so to support your own inner guidance. You can constantly check to see if what you are receiving aligns with your own intuition — your own inner guru.

Here is the crux of why you alone are your very best guru. By trusting your own voice, you develop a personal, direct relationship with your divine Source — with Love, Truth, Light, God — however you define your Source. As we align our thinking and hearts with this Source, we come to know with great clarity our mission, life purpose, and the highest steps to take in our lives. We get intimately acquainted with our highest selfhood. And we can relax in this freedom of such keen inner knowing.

Being guided by your inner guru is empowering. You can, at any time, turn to the voice within and activate your power. Your own inner light is completely sufficient to draw to you the right people, circumstances, and opportunities for all situations.

Perhaps the question now is this: How well do you really know yourself? Self-discovery is vital to your spiritual growth and is a guiding principle on the path to being your own guru. There is no substitution for what you can discover about your essential needs and passions when you go within. And there is so much joy in discovering who we are, our essential uniqueness, and how best to express it.

The secret to a life of inner peace, growth, strength, power, joy, and love is this path of self-discovery. This is something no one else can do for you. The freedom to discover this for yourself is Love’s gift to you. Being your own guru means releasing personal attachments to someone else telling you what to do or how to proceed. What a wonderful path to discover these very answers lie within us!

The more you turn to your own inner guidance system, the more you will find clarity within your core being. And your identity will have more clarity to others too.

We are all advancing spiritually, and at a faster pace, because there is so much more receptivity today. We are all hungry for higher answers. One of those higher answers is that all we need to know to act in our highest behalf is right here within us.

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Hello Socrates,

Great info. I just heard something similar on the news today, about going with your instincts. They were interviewing the writer of the book, Spring Cleaning your Soul....or something like that.

He was saying (in effect) in order for us to connect with our souls, we need to break free from the perceptions that people who know us...have of us. He says we tend to act in accordance to these perceptions. Because of this, we do not connect with our souls. He encouraged the audience to use more of their instincts and gut feelings.

I think this kind of aligns with what you posted. If people can break free from the fear of being judged and be comfortable with who they are, one could think they would have the ability to become more spiritually connected with themselves.

Thanks for the blog Soc... wave
Thank you Socrates and Johnny. This is food for thought. handshake wave thumbs up
Good blog Socrates.thumbs up

"We are all advancing spiritually, and at a faster pace, because there is so much more receptivity today. We are all hungry for higher answers. One of those higher answers is that all we need to know to act in our highest behalf is right here within us".

Very true! I also used to look for answers externally - which was good in a way and also helped me to find what I was looking for - but, only up to a certain point at which I started to look within and find, as you say, my own inner guru.
Then I went on my own path.

@Johny
"If people can break free from the fear of being judged and be comfortable with who they are, one could think they would have the ability to become more spiritually connected with themselves"

Very true also!thumbs up
Everybody has their own individual path to walk and shouldn´t be scared of walking it - sometimes alone! - without the fear of being judged by anyone, nor being "ashamed" of WHO WE ARE!

We are all Love. We all are Spiritual Beings having a physical experience here on earth and we should be aware of this.

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Hi dear Minerva,
You are a good example of that... and of going on your own journey.
Hello Johnny, I think so many of those 'I will heal your life' writers have made huge amounts of money out of our search for a deep knowledge, etc., now we are entering a new phase where we go on our own quest... i believe , the knowledge is mostly within. It is the God in us. [My personal belief]wine
Hello Johnny, I think so many of those 'I will heal your life' writers have made huge amounts of money out of our search for a deep knowledge, etc., now we are entering a new phase where we go on our own quest... i believe , the knowledge is mostly within. It is the God in us. [My personal belief]wine
Hi Socrates wave sometimes for me that is looking too deeply into myself brings me around in a complete circle, the best answers for me come out of the blue when least expecting them.
We still through life gather information some we do on purpose the rest just happens, that I call just living and if we listen to our innerselfs when they just jump at you out of the blue then another step further we go. grin walking in Nature alone with her gives me all the guru I need if you get me.
Hope you are okay these days.teddybear
Socrates...wave

Soc it to 'em! thumbs up handshake
Hi Johnny

Thanks for your comment.
The term "guru" normally refers to a spiritual teacher, especially in the Hindu tradition. In this article, I think it applies to someone who may help you in your spiritual development. Traditionally , the term "spiritual" has been linked with religion, but many persons view them as being different, even right here at CS where several persons are listed as being spiritual but not religious.

The more we explore the spiritual path, the more we discover the core truth that the highest answers needed for our lives are within us right now.
There is so much wisdom with-in you. Can you imagine turning to this wisdom within and thinking of yourself as your own guru?

This wisdom is innate, and it may be viewed as our own individual inner guru, and we can discover and realize it through our own intuition and insight.

No one knows your life, motives, and longings better than you. No one can surpass your own inner voice as the highest resource you have. You already have within you the solution and divine guidance you will need for the rest of your life. You have great ability to manifest as a resource to yourself.

Being your own guru means releasing personal attachments to someone else telling you what to do or how to proceed. What a wonderful path to discover these very answers lie within us!
The last statement quoted from the article is in full agreement with your statement that "we need to break free from the perceptions that people who know us...have of us".
Hi usha

Thanks for your comment.
I am happy that the blog has given you food for thought.
Hi Minerva

Thank you for your comment and for sharing with us.

My experience has also been similar in my search where initially I sought spiritual guidance from others, mainly through reading, but have come to rely more on my own insight into so-called "spiritual matters".

Thank you also for your lovely comment regarding myself.
I can only state what I believe and feel. I make no claim to it being "the truth".
Identifying False Gurus and Spiritual Teachers

1. Charging Large Amounts of Money

2. Giving Themselves Fancy Titles

3. Inability to Take Criticism

4. Overly Focused on the End Goal

5. Behaving Hypocritically

6. Focusing on Fulfilling Egocentric Desires

7. Displaying Spiritual Materialism

8. Behaving Selfishly

9. Promising a Fast Path to Self-Realization


In closing…

These are several ways in which you can spot a false guru, spiritual teacher, or other peddler of faux spirituality. In this day and age where there are thousands of so-called gurus, we have to be careful who we choose to listen, to because if we make the mistake of following someone who is ego-centered in their true intentions, then we will lose time, money, and opportunity costs (among other things).



I invite others to do a google search on:
"fraudulent gurus"
to learn more on the subject.
Hi Redex

Thanks for your comment.

I get you 100% re your statement:
"walking in Nature alone with her gives me all the guru I need "
for that has been my spiritual path also as expressed in several of my poems on Poetry Corner.
Hi Bspoken4

Thanks for your comment.
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