Chemistry...
Why are some folks so hung up on chemistry on the first day you meet? I know it is important, but to bring it up every time he communicates with you gets annoying. Here's a condensed version of our conversation after he asked to meet and I agreed.He says, we need to talk on the phone before I agree to meet. I think you can tell someone's personality by hearing your voice...see if we have any chemistry. Call me ###-###-####.
I reply, You are too funny. You invite and then you put up your guards. It's ok Sweetheart, your ways are a little too cautious for me. Besides, I think it could take more than one meeting to determine if there are any sparks between two people; as one could be nervous on the first meet. Thank you nonetheless, for considering inviting me. Have a great day.
He replies, You're very welcome. Would you like to talk on the phone?
I thought I brushed him off. He still wants to talk? Hmmmm...
I know chemistry, spark, and connection are very important when meeting someone. Appearance doesn't stay far behind either. But I do believe it takes more than one meeting to determine if there is chemistry. I am also aware that sometimes those first few seconds after meeting can be a big turn off.
What is your opinion?
Comments (17)
To know that, I need to meet someone in person and I think this should be done sooner rather than later to not built up any expectations.
I have liked someone and discovered there is no chemistry and hell, I have not liked someone and there is one hell of chemistry.
I believe that you don`t fall in love as much as grow in love.. which is what I feel you are saying. Hence for some it takes time to get to know each other and allow your feelings to develop. I believe both can happen and does happen. For me with my ex.. chemistry was there from the beginning...but I know this doesn`t have to be for some.
Maybe different personalities experience different needs and feelings.
Unsure.. but interesting blog.
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