After love...

In my life, I love only one time (I guess) and I don't think it's something can call "after" (at least until now)... so, I don't really know the feeling of "after love"

I'm quite curious what people here think about their "ex"?

Friends?
Strangers?
Enemy?
Or "just the other crazy b*tch/dog"?

dunno
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I was in love only once too, but I don't carry it as baggage.
I do not have any regret's or animosity to carry with me.
I am now the sum of all my life's experiences, which is a
positive thing. You can think like that, or you can continue
to wallow in self pity. imo.
Mimi I was almost 20 years alone between husbands.
So was not on the rebound.
I found that it is very possible to love more than one person in your life. I am happy that it is so........
Because the person is different from the other one, the love may be less or even more.wave
After torture? Does some person have more trouble forgetting the past than another, dependent on their personal experiences. If you take tortured rat and give him the comfort we all seek, like food, mate, and shelter, the rat return to more normal behavior compared to rat that was tortured and put in uncomfortable environment.

I think this is true about humans too.
Bun, she was in love, not tortured.
I'll have to consult my lawyer before making any comment on that wink laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh
Note to selftyping "Don't eat from Ken's freezer".


Ken sums it up. "Move on." It the hard task sometime, but you young, attractive, unattached, free from burdens (kids). You should be singing the happy Chinese song about your future!
Petal, I thought she have a trouble after the break up. Suffer from thebroken heart broken heart I not sure the word in English, but like metaphor. She the rat. The touture is the broken heart. The comfort is finding those things that we seek. hug
thumbs up I get you Bun....the heart break.
Hahaha! Actually find it helpful not to think about my ex.
But at the end of day...Well the sun goes down doesn't it, & I guess on all whom it falls has their story.wine
Mimi, it is not easy!!! I know... I feel like I cried an ocean of tears... Heart felt torn to shreds.. But there was only one way to go and that was up... To make that final decision to leave every hope and dream behind.. To put them in a place never to revisit and then allow yourself to move on, be happy! No more tears, no more sadness!!!
I wish this for you hug hug
After love?....an image securely and safely placed somewhere in the subconscious.
Hi Bun, I'm curious to know you made the test with rat by yourself or you read from book??

I don't know you but for me I'm tired with books, one of my favorite quote is "all theories are grey, only experienced life is worth".

And then if you did the test by yourself, did you measure how long the lucky rat can return to "normal"?

blues
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