Dating Hermits.. a rant!
Time and time again I read statements from women on profiles, blogs and forums that state “Not looking for a fling or casual sex”, not only is this declaration a complete turn off for any would be prospective suitor but it pretty much indicates the woman is, has been or wants to be a dating hermit.In a recent post the blogger did elaborate in words what most women think by saying “I prefer to wait for years and have it with someone very special to me”, and this is the core problem of most dating hermits, if you dont participate how are you ever going to find someone special?
So.... To those women that have this attitude I say to you... “Stop pissing about wasting your time on dating sites”. Either get your shit together and make an effort or crawl back into your comfort zone and grow old peacefully.... AND SINGLE.
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But...
Before you put your foot in your mouth ask yourself this question... "Does this person have a reason for being on a dating site whilst being in a relationship".
If you look at every contact from a biased and negative point of view how do you expect to get a positive reaction?
If you want to find a gem, you need to dig through a lot of rubble.
You can of course add your tuppenceworth.
@Kn
Your last paragraph was well said... thank you.
BTW Would you happen to know any pubs where women do that, I have a friend in Ireland who's kind of desperate. (just kidding!)
In answer to your question... Of course my knows.
Blogging about bedroom topics are flavor of the month.
...you obviously do feel a need to be here, but it's not me that should be questioning why? It's you.
Actually my GF was a dating hermit and onsite for other reasons than finding a relationship....
You have a sharp tongue BTW!
Well, whats a month or two between friends
I am here because I use CS as a way of communicating with my girlfriend.
I applaud your attitude and hope other readers of this blog take note of the comments you have made.
I'm not realistically looking to date or meet anyone from this site. I am here merely for distraction/entertainment and I say that in my profile. If I were to date, it would be with someone from my own country, but I'm not interested in romance right now, for my own reasons.
I take it you are not here to date either, being in a relationship....but perhaps you are looking for opportunities? Yes/no?
I have had a gf for 6 months..still came on here for a laugh
I have had a gf for 6 months..still came on here for a laugh
Mind you I do not have anything but 'pen pals' here on CS, but still there are a few that I use CS with, I use personal emails with, I use Facebook with, one or two we even also talk on the phone. All that. So to have a GF, but only CS as a contact means, that is like super duper weird.
I do not care about what people think...I just do what I feel is right...this site for me is to exchange thoughts and e-mails are good if you don't want to comment or blog about it...