Anorexic Identical Twins and Male Anorexia

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Maria and Katy Campbell, identical twins, can recall the life-changing statement their father made, that would forever alter the course of their lives. They were only 11 years old, when they overheard their father tell their mother, “Gosh, those girls are becoming young women, aren’t they? They’re getting hips.”
The twins, now 33 years old, decided that very day to stop eating in order to lose their blossoming hips…

Maria and Katy have spent the last 20 years of their lives, attempting to “punish” their parents for the remark their father made, so many years ago. Obviously, these women have severe mental issues along with their anorexia.
The twins have preternaturally childish bodies and voices. The illness causes their hair to fall out in clumps. Maria is 5’5” and weighs 87lbs and her sister, Katy is the same height, but weighs 70lbs. Neither twin has even started their period yet, because their body weight was never enough to support one.

The twins say they feel like the anorexia has imprisoned them.
Katy states, ‘I can’t walk any more. My back hurts, my heartbeat is irregular, I’ve got osteoporosis, chronic gastric pain and pancreatitis. I’m on diuretics because my kidneys don’t work.

‘Katy and I began to resent Mum because she was so slim,’ says Maria. ‘We looked up to her as a role model and felt we came up short.’
‘Maria started keeping a food diary and would jot down everything we ate, our weight and how much exercise we’d done. We started skipping breakfast and exercising fanatically, doing 50 lengths of the pool in the morning and gymnastics after school.

‘We had a system where we’d starve ourselves for six days, only eating 400 calories precisely a day — ten pieces of pic ’n’ mix, an orange, a banana and a diet cola,’ says Katy. ‘Then, on the final day, we’d eat anything and everything we could get our hands on — bread, pasta, crisps, cakes.’
‘When we were 15, Mum noticed we were losing weight, but we brushed her off. She began to sit with us during supper — but one of us would distract her while the other put food up their sleeves.’

Despite the illness, both girls gained excellent grades at GCSE and A-level and were accepted into medical school at the Royal Free Hospital in London.

Maria explains: ‘We were having just one cup of coffee and a packet of chocolate buttons a day, and Katy had lost a lot of weight. So we were called in and told that she would have to go to hospital to recover.
‘I remember one of the doctors saying they had noticed I had lost weight, too, but that my weight loss wasn’t quite as bad as Katy’s.
‘Rather than be relieved, I thought: “No one is going to say that Katy is better than me at something.” It was a trigger for me losing another 2st.’
Because of this deadly competitive streak, the girls were sent to different hospitals in London in the hope they would not be able to encourage each other’s weight loss.

‘We were force-fed 3,000 calories a day through tubes,’ says Maria. ‘We were not allowed any contact with each other, but we got around that by writing letters under pseudonyms and getting friends to pass them on. We also managed to get hold of mobile phones and hid them in cupboards.
‘It was the first time I had been apart from Katy and we were both in pieces. It’s hard enough being forced to eat, but I hated being without my sister.

Incredibly, they both graduated from medical school in 2009 and are now qualified doctors.

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‘Neither of us has ever had a boyfriend,’ says Maria. ‘The illness has always got in the way.
‘We’ve never had the opportunity to go out and meet men, let alone date them. It’s something that both Katy and I are very sad about.’
‘I want a husband. I want fertility. I want my bones and my hair — and it’s not too late. I know people who are still ill with this horrible disease in their 50s, and I’m determined that will not be me. I am 100% ready to change this time.’


Hi sola, its a sad disease isn't it...
but i honestly don't see why the fathers comment should of had such a life effecting change on them???

You said you think they must of being mentally ill...
do you mean in the begining or through fault of their disease?
I wouldn't go to a doctor who looked like a walking skeleton! wow
Four decades ago when I was guarding a Chase bank on East End Ave, there was a mother daughter team with this disease (and yes, it is classified as both a disease AND a mental illness, especially if it is accompanied by bulemia) who came in every two or three days to get some spending money (ATMs weren't around yet). Quite wealthy, neither one weighed more than 90 pounds, if that even though both were 5'8" according to the ruler by the bank exit doors. Maybe a decade later I read in the paper how one had died in bed and the other one took medications to kill herself (successfully) and lay in bed next to her dead mom until she expired to be found weeks later.

Then I learned one of my friend's daughters had this disease. I had held the baby girl right after she was born, so it was sad to hear. In females Anorexia is often a reaction to a feeling their father is rejecting them. It is much more common in females than in men. In the case of my friend's daughter, one day long ago her father (who always was an idiot in my opinion) said to her at about age 15, 'hey Jennifer, you look fat."

That did it. She began a deliberate effort to not eat. When forced to eat by her parents, a few minutes later she would go to the bathroom and throw it up. In that fashion by age 17 she was down to 70 pounds. Her parents (and this contributed to their eventual divorce) placed her in a mental institution specializing in such cases. She spent years there before being released back to her mom at about 24 years of age. At that time, when I saw her back in the early 90s she was a normal weight. Her and her mom (a person of normal weight and disposition) fought almost constantly. Eventually her father died and left her some money and she moved out and disappeared for years. It was only two years ago her mom located her on FB through a tip. We were all sad to hear she is again anorexic, but of course this time, living far from her mom there really is nothing anyone can do for her.

Many anorexics die from the complications of insufficient nutrition to sustain body functions.
Hi Itchy

I noticed you said "Hi sola". I hope you are not confusing me with someone else.
This blog is based on an article for which I have stated the link in the first comment.
I also find it puzzling that their father's comment about their "blossoming hips" should have such a prolonged effect on their anorexic actions. Perhaps, it may have triggered their behaviour initially but to have sustained it for such a long time is strange.
I tend to agree with the view expressed in the article that they may also have "mental issues" which have fed their anorexic behaviour.

You asked:
"You said you think they must of being mentally ill...
do you mean in the begining or through fault of their disease?"


My view is that they had an inclination to anorexia initially or at the beginning. Perhaps their father's comment triggered it into action. Of course, once they embarked on the path, it may have become self-sustaining based on the results of their action. JMO.
sorry Soc, wrong name but of course i meant you doh
i wasn't sure if the dignose of being mentally ill was your personal view or not.
my thought is, in the begining they were not, but if it set in as the illness did, that i wouldn't know anything about.
what i do know, through experience.. when i was a girl, i hated the thought of developing into a woman, infact i feared it.. so much so that when it started, i used to sleep belly down on the hard floor boards to stop it from happening..

so my thought is.. they were not mentally ill but perhaps lacking in adult lesson education or what ever you may call it confused
Hi sea

I think "anorexia nervosa" is a very complicated condition. As you pointed out, there is definitely a psychological dimension to it.

"The cause of anorexia nervosa is not fully understood. It is thought to develop from a mix of physical, emotional, and social triggers.

Extreme dieting changes how the brain and metabolism work, and it stresses the body. These changes may make you more likely to develop an eating disorder.

Genetics play a big part in anorexia and bulimia. Compared with people who don't have these disorders, people who have eating disorders are more likely to have a family history of an eating disorder, obesity, or a mood disorder (such as anxiety or depression).

A combination of certain personality traits (such as low self-confidence along with perfectionism) and cultural and social pressures can play a part in anorexia.

For some teens, anorexia may be a way of coping with stress and the challenges of the teen years. Stressful life events, such as moving, divorce, or the death of a loved one, can trigger anorexia."




Thanks for your comment!
Hi viv

One would think that doctors are normally the professionals who would assist in treating persons with anorexia and would be familiar with how it affects health.
It is quite strange to see these identical twin doctors themselves as victims of anorexia.
Hi Ken

Thanks for your very enlightened comment.

Re your comment:

"In females Anorexia is often a reaction to a feeling their father is rejecting them. It is much more common in females than in men."

This appears to be borne out by the example of your friend and his comment to his teenage daughter that she looked fat, and the consequences of his insensitive remark.

It may also seem to apply to the scenario described in this article. I am aware that adolescence is a very sensitive period. However, I would think that the father's statement with regard to the twins "blossoming hips" may not necessarily be seen as negative, as it was in this case, but some female teenagers may view it as a complement instead that they were approaching "womanhood". Of course, I may be totally wrong in my assumption since I know that adolescence is an extremely sensitive, and perhaps unpredictable, period.
LoL, what I know is if I ever have a daughter I will be careful what I say or write around her.

It is a lousy disease. I agree that the two in OP may not have been mentally ill when they began. However, the condition itself causes changes in how the brain works, and by the standards of those who do not have the disease, after a year or two, the person who is anorexic is definitely outside the society norm in how they think and view the condition, and that is of course exactly how we identify something as a mental illness, if ones behavior or thought process is not the same as most folks.

In any case, it is a condition that harms.
Hi itchy

First of all, I must say you look positively stunning in your new photo.

In my opinion, the topic of "mental illness", to which you referred, is a very controversial one.
Clearly, there are some very serious conditions and cases that require medical attention.
However, without seeking to downplay the "psychological difficulties" some persons, including children, have in everyday living, it is amazing how medical science keeps discovering and labeling "new mental illnesses" on an ongoing basis.

In your case, you said:

"..when i was a girl, i hated the thought of developing into a woman, infact i feared it.. so much so that when it started, i used to sleep belly down on the hard floor boards to stop it from happening.."

I am glad that you "failed in your efforts", since you turned out to be a very beautiful woman, as I am certain most CS members would agree.

I agree with your take that:

".. they were not mentally ill but perhaps lacking in adult lesson education or what ever you may call it"

but medical science may disagree.
Hi Socrates wave

Sad to read but I wish I have half of their determination not to eat.

I've always battled with my ballooning weight. Even by just looking at food, I would gain weight! uh oh

My willpower when it comes to food is weak therefore don't think I could ever be anorexic. I'm more likely to be obese methinks help
soc
Control is another issue...perhaps that need stems from anxiety and this maybe a coping mechanism...bulimia and anorexia?...regardless it is such a horrible disease to treat...many end up with heart problems and multi-organ failure...very sad...sigh
DC

It may be a matter of your metabolism.

I recall reading, a few decades ago, of a man in the UK whose weight was about six hundred pounds.
According to the report, the poor guy's daily food consumption consisted of a breakfast of tea and toast.

If you think that your willpower when it comes to food is weak, you can compensate for that, at least partially, by engaging in regular physical exercise. Walking at a brisk pace for 30 to 40 minutes, three or four times per week, will do wonders for your general overall feeling and may help to control your "weight".
Of course, working out in a gym would be even better. The important thing is to be consistent with the exercise activity.
Hi lou

Yes, clearly there is a psychological component with regard to anorexia.

It is very sad. Also, it may be very difficult for the anorexic person's loved ones, such as family and friends, to helplessly watch as the person's physical condition continues to deteriorate, in some cases, even to the point of death.
Socrates

Food + Me = Inseparable

Exercise + Me = Non-existence
DC

I wish that you would at least give it a try.

I am not asking you to deny the food part, but just add some physical exercise to it.

How about a five or ten minute walk, inside your own house or yard, to start off. Believe me, the overall "good" feeling you will get from it will be very satisfying.
This is a video to accompany the previous comment on male aneroxia re Jeremy Gillitzer

Socrates

My job in the restaurant requires me to walk a lot.........and eat a lot too!! grin

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