My Kind Of Date
When was the last time you went out for a date and really enjoyed it?I joined another dating site a week ago and meet a nice 47 years old man. We agreed to meet at Starbuck's last night. I left work a little early to meet the guy at 12 midnight. On my way there, I got cold feet and changed my mind...went to Mc Donald's instead! Had some Caesar Salad and Apple pie...hanged out there all by myself and went home.
After some lousy excuse that something urgent came up at work, the guy persisted that we could meet tomorrow night...Saturday and I'm off. He asked where I would prefer to meet: La Calle or Irish Pub? I'm not familiar with these places so I googled it. La Calle seems decent so I'm thinking of accepting his invite. I like to dance and would prefer to go to some nice place where I can have a drink and dance silly...I would really really enjoy that
Now, I'm thinking...if I go out tomorrow, what shall I wear? Black? Red? something sexy? Something conservative ? What would usually impress a man who seems to be educated, nice and down to earth? Shall I wear my hair down? Curly ?
Shall I bring a friend or two? Or I simply send a friend to pretend to be me again?
What the heck...it's not easy to go out for a date
So many things to consider
Just thinking about it makes me feel like dancing
Comments (168)
Give up the safety LDR fella. LDRs are disastrous wastes of your life and time, and nobody else here has ever had one or taken comfort in having someone out there when there's no-one at home.
Give up the night job. Work social hours and do good deeds for people in need.
Get off social websites of all kinds. You will only meet nutters there.
Change your name from Crazy to Utterly Sane And Boring. Crazy is thoroughly misleading, as though you would take the road less travelled every now and then.
There. Sorted.
I shall now take off my pious and sanctimonious hat and wish you well.
Okay, Ian your version of her life is totally different than what I had somehow gathered from prior blogs. CH do you confirm Ian's assessment of the situation? If so, I concur, tell the LD guy you have begun to date and go out and have some fun. Meet who you want where and when you want once you have told the LD guy you are going to date others. If he really is being 'good' it isn't fair to make him be good while you have fun.
Many people are in denial and live an "illusion".
What Ian wrote is probably the truth - not as he sees it! - but as he personally knows it!
From what I can see he genuinely cares about CH and has been a good friend to her and he is now giving her the right advice as he can see that she´s living in denial.
Oh wait, she found a solution, part 2 continues elsewhere.