Conflicted
Well my friends I must say after being on this site for almost a month, I am a bit over whelmed. I've spoken with a few people on here but the 2 that I liked the most have either removed their profile on their own or had been deleted by the site themselves.This is exactly why I don't do this, how can I learn to trust again when all I ever receive is deceit. I admit I am nowhere's near perfect but what is the point of lying to one you barely know. Nothing can be built on lies as the other will eventually find out and you'll be down in the dumps again and right back where you started. It's wrong, unjust and not fair to those that really are trying to begin again. It takes a lot to do that for some..... just saying
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its a sick world...
try, try and try again, like most of us do
Blogging here is the best way to get to know people...eventually you will see their true self...good luck!!
Well I'll be darn and who would have thought..
You have a Good one,
if i may,afew questions if you don't mind.
These two men, were you mailing them with romantic notions in mind? if yes then were they aware they were in line?.. as in did each of them know about the other?
Not that its anything got to do with me but its just you mention deceit and nothing can be built on lies.
On-line is the same as real life, start with the intention of talking to interesting people and making friends. Love happens - or it doesn't.
Grow up and accept that internet meeting is a numbers game, the more you meet the better your chances.
As far as I'm concerned that process would take a year or so, maybe longer. Who is in a hurry, if you are then why?
Relax be cool and enjoy the friends that may be made here first, and consider the rest as a natural evolution.
you had nothing in common with these people than black and white digits.
they didn't really deceive you. you lost nothing but time.
But you can't hold on to what you don't got.
And it seems they were different or not interested. or lack the time.
All the feelings were inside of you. they are not lost.
Talk about unfair. imagine what men have to get through